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5.5.1
Preface My
favorite word is love (affection). Describing love simply like this, would
the reader recognize love in the higher sense? That's what I like about love,
not sextile love. It's not the kind of love that's often used in sex
expressions like AV videos. Love was discussed in the chapter on libido. Love
should never be confused with romance. He loves pets and loves plants. See
Buddha in the roadside plants. See Buddha in a single flower. It is the
state. We know Christ's love of mankind. 5.5.2
Image of love Let's
bring the image of love to the surface here. The
definition of love sounds vague, but it's not sextile love. No one falls in
love with a cat or a plant. That desire is called love. that's right. love
for nature. love everything. Suffering, sorrow, joy, all kinds of actions,
events can be felt joyfully. We mourn the sufferings of others together and
rejoice in the joys of others. This is the state of mind of Kenji Miyazawa,
who said, gI will not lose to the rain.h
A feeling that comes naturally from the heart. and human love. These
are the result of diversified parenting instincts. Parents risk their lives
searching for lost children. Sacrifice yourself to help your child. I never
felt any pain for it. Even if the child dies first, he will never forget the
temporary life with the child that was etched into his brain. Continue to
live together in the delusions of the brain. It is a strong emotion welled up
naturally heartily and philanthropy. The young man evolves instinct
consistently while discussing and resonating with the spirits. 5.5.3 poem Haruno Niji-san
*Angel's butt* A mother's love for her child Maybe... Maybe my younger brother can see me...?
"I can see it!" The eyes of my brother, who is still a baby, are
chasing me. I checked it many times. I checked. no doubt! My brother can see me! ...I couldn't believe it... Can I believe it?
"While I was sure of it, I still couldn't believe it." Eventually, my younger brother, who was able to
crawl, started chasing after his father and mother. Even after me. on second thoughts! I can see it! My brother has
me! Papa and Mama can't see me though. Yes, I can only see my brother. Because I'm a ghost. That's why when my brother,
who has become able to talk, talks to me, at first my dad and mom seemed to
think I was talking to myself. But eventually my brother realized that he could
only see me. I think it must have been very annoying for my brother. The
younger brother who talks to himself too much annoys the adults around him
and makes him feel creepy. So little by little my brother stopped talking to
me and started pretending he couldn't see me. No one wants to embarrass their
mom or dad, and they don't want people to think they're creepy. But... but I was working hard too. Mom still
hasn't recovered from the shock of my death. When my brother was still in my
mother's womb, he died in a car accident... It was around the time I was about to enter first
grade. Mom keeps blaming herself. When she was about to go play that day, it
was Mama who said to me, "Why don't you eat a snack?" "The
snack is Jun-chan's favorite hotcake, isn't it?" I immediately washed my
hands and sat down at the table. And when I hurriedly bit into the pancake,
my mom said, "No, you have to eat slowly. You'll get stuck in her
throat," and gave me some milk. Still, I ran out of the house without drinking
half the milk. Without even saying "thank you for the meal". Then,
at an intersection near my house, I was caught in a large truck that was
about to turn left.@At that time, my mother told me that if she didn't make hot cakes, she
would have to tell me, "Why don't you do it after eating?" , I
regret it all the time. That way I wouldn't have crossed the intersection
when the truck was coming. Mom was so shocked that she fell asleep, and her dad and grandma were
very worried. Before long, my younger brother was born much earlier than
planned, but he was born safely. But mom never made pancakes again. So, her poor
brother has never eaten the delicious pancakes her mom makes. I want my mom
to make hotcakes again. When my mom starts making pancakes again, I think I
can rest assured that she's@But Mama spent more time brooding and sobbing in front of her picture
of me. It's probably because my little brother is about to start the same
first grade as when I died. I'm sure he's duplicating my appearance in my
younger brother's appearance. cbut don't cry mom. He is much closer to Papa
and Mama than when I was alive. Oh, I want my mom to understand that somehow. It was a Sunday and it had been raining since
morning. When her mom was out shopping nearby, her younger
brother called out to me. It's kind of strange that younger brother would be
surprised when he called out to ghost, "Onii-chan," but I was so
surprised that I jumped. It's been a long time since younger brother talked
to me. "Hey, onii-chan," my younger brother asked displeased.
"Why does my brother only see me?"-You knew I was your older
brother, right? - "Yeah. Sometimes the adults around me would say...
You're starting to look like your brother. But why can't everyone around you
see you?" -That's right. I don't know much about it either,
but... I was at a loss for an answer, so I looked outside the terrace. Mama's
favorite pansy was blooming in a small garden with colorful flowers. At that
time, I remembered what my mother always said. gI think flowers are one of
the gifts God gave us humans. *Present or gift* Maybe God also gave his younger brother a present.
such a strange power. For my mother's sake...for my sake...when I said that,
"Huh..." My little brother looked somewhat satisfied, but he
continued slowly. "I want to tell Mama about my brother. He'll always be
by my side. Then mama won't cry anymore But... how can I get
my mom to understand..." -That's right, I've been thinking for a long, long
time about how I can get my mom to understand--I said with a sigh. - There
was a time when I thought I'd ask you to tell me, but I'm sure no one will
believe you. that's whyc At that time, I suddenly remembered. - But, but...
wait a minute... That's right, hotcakes! Heart-shaped hotcakes! - "Hot
cakes? Heart-shaped?" - I loved the hot cakes my mom made. One day my
mom made me a hot cake in the shape of a heart... when I put the hot cake on
a plate, my mom suddenly started laughing. I remembered and laughed as I continued. - Mama
has a great laugh. So when I asked what was so funny... "The
shape of the heart looks like my baby buttocks." And when I swelled up a
little, I said, ``Don't get angry, don't get angry, because the baby's butt
is the butt of an angel.''[ "Angel's buttocks " After repeating my words and muttering, his eyes
lit up and said, "Okay, big brother!" my little brother yelled, a
little excited. "I'm sure mom will understand if I tell you that!" At that moment, I heard the sound of the front
door opening. "I'm home" was Mom. My brother asked me quickly.
"Hey, did mama laugh that much?"...I see... My brother has never
heard mama's laughter like back then. Because I stole your laughter... I suddenly became unbearably sad. If I had said to
my mom that day, "Thank you for the meal," I would have said,
"It was delicious, Mom. Please make it again." I didn't cross the
intersection when the was running! It's not Mom's fault! It's not because of
mom's pancakes! I wanted to shout that. But mama can't hear me. Mama can't
see me. I can't cry, but he was crying. He was crying like never before in
his life. At that time, my mother's face was in front of me when I suddenly
raised my face. She was standing with a pale face. -Can you see me? I thought so for a moment. Mom's eyes were filled
with tears. Mama is about to faint her, she said in a low voice as if she
could barely breathe. "Jun-chan... are you there, right? I can't see
your mom, but I heard you just now. Jun-chan's voice said, 'Thank you for the
meal. It was delicious...'" I unconsciously looked at my brother. My
brother silently shook his head. "I didn't say anything," said
those eyes. "Jun-chan, right? Jun-chan said that!" I
nodded over and over again. gYou were always by my side, werenft you? "I
wonder why I didn't notice it until now. I'm sorry, Jun-chan." Even
though tears were streaming down from Mama's eyes, a rippling smile spread
across her mouth. Then mom looked at her brother with a startled
look. "Shin-chan," Mama said as she hugged her little brother.
"You thought Mom was weird, didn't you? I'm sorry, but now..." My
brother didn't let Mom say the end. "Mama, make me one too. Angel's butt
pancake." Mama stared at her little brother's face with her eyes wide
open. "Did you know?" Mama could barely say in a trembling voice. Then mom started making pancakes again. She has
hot cakes in the shape of hearts. for me of course Wakaran-san, g@To my motherh@May 17, 2016
(Tuesday) 22:28 Mother's
Day (unusual spring) It's been almost 50 years since I moved to
Tokyo... For the first five years or so, I went back every
year. About 20 years after that, once every few years In the 25 years since then, a total of 2.3 times All those seasons are summer... So I don't even know the names of the spring
flowers that bloom in the garden When I was a child, I could eat cake at Christmas Receive New Year's gifts from relatives on New
Year's Day I spent the rest of the day without worrying about
it... About 10 or 20 years ago, on Mother's Day and
Respect for the Aged Day, I started making "at least phone
calls"... I couldn't call you anymore this year Instead I put her first carnation poem Ρcμvq@1966 year There is one girl working for the blind person of
the same friend today. When I watched her for the first time, I thought, "It was terrible". Face is ugly and festers. The eyes are opening
slovenly.@@@@@@@@ I just see the red place of lower eyelids. @@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@ I strongly controlled feelings.@@@@@@@ She is working together with group member though
she is a visual impairment. The friends working with her is talking always
without thinking. They are laughing each other.@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@ It was wondered to me She who has invisible eyes almost enjoys a red
sweater, red sandals, fashion. @@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@@ She talks it hard if the theme is turned to a
kimono. @@@@@@@@@@ "Could you take me to department store
because I go for an overcoat to a department store?" She is gentle-looking and modest. The passerby turns their eyes to here. My heart to
worry it, is ugly. She buys it and seems to be glad at an overcoat.
She stands before the mirror and then she puts the buttons one by one. "Could you look me because I canft
see it" She seems to be lonely with that situation. EEEEEEEEEE.EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE I heard her talking with one young man who lived
in the dormitory same as her. "All of coworkers is lonely in my
dormitory. They are closing their mind. I work, and return to the dormitory,
and everybody is lonely all day long. There does not feel a pleasure. When is
the next your birthday?" Her
eyes which she talked shined. It
was the figure of the youth who chased a dream looking ahead. She was one
human, too. She likes music. She likes nostalgic sound of a
koto among other things especially. She can feel it aurally with the optic
part that she lost it. She seems to get the joy that she hides sorrow and I
cannot feel such feeling. I am rather encouraged by strength of the vitality. **************** What is the human joy and human happiness? The young woman came to the same room
to the care of the patient when I was hospitalized before for a while for 4-5
days. She
looked at a glance like 23 years old. She looks in the mirror and cares her
head and her face all day long because she gets enough free time. I was quite
disgusted as the same woman. Her
pleasure is only her fashion? What does she do except makeup? I have not talked with her because I do not know
the reason whether she is too excellent probably or is a girl. However, I
cannot refuse her attractive figure. My mind is resonant with her action. The
source of the wave is in her mind. It is a resonance of the instinct. It is
emitting to every direction. 5.5.4 In search of deeper love@A mental barrier
wave that leads to the future- In the same way that a worker bee draws the figure
of eight, sympathizes with each other and exchanges information, young people
constantly develop their instincts through circles, interacting with people,
engaging in discussions, and sympathizing with each other. Hundreds of millions of sperm, prepared to
sacrifice themselves, hit the thick wall that stands in front of them, as if
trying to dig into the ovaries. And the result is the path of evolution. But
the walls are thick. How many millions of young people have collided and made
progress so far? One of them tries to poke a rock. Another puts his ear to
the rock and hears voices in the distance. Some climbed and fell. And some
eventually get hurt, exhausted, and die. There are also those who turn back. But having
made it this far, they are still happy. Unable to reach the wall, many fell
off along the way. The wall seems to demand more sperm, dropout, wake up. In
other words, now is a difficult road for the living organism called human
beings, seeking new desires from monopoly desires. @How did our predecessors pass through walls? The point is that many of them were alone. Is this
wall made of mental shock wave reflection wall? A chance resonance with an
individual allowed him to pass through walls. Even if many people run into a
wall at random, the wavelength of their hearts will only be disturbed. There
was no way it could resonate with the wall, and it was bounced back by a
powerful mental wave. In other words, this wall is a filter that each individual
is eligible to pass through. One day we will be able to pass in groups, but
what A hundred years ago. It is a wall that can be
passed through for the first time by those who have abandoned evil thoughts
in their hearts. Many who are near the wall may also enter the wall to some
extent. However, due to the evil thoughts that arise immediately, the wall
generates a strong repulsive force and pushes it out. "Then let's see how our predecessors got
through." If he doesn't understand just by looking at it, he can't find
the answer. Talking is accompanied by a little pain, so let's say the same
thing again. "Many of our predecessors are often
alone." In other words, when many distracting thoughts gather together,
this mental impact reflection wall absorbs each other's wavelengths and
cannot become a force that can resonate with the wall. A chance resonance
with an individual allowed him to pass through walls. For many people, even
if they randomly hit it, their hearts will only be disturbed, and they will not
be able to resonate with the wall, and will be pushed back by a powerful
mental wave. In other words, this wall is a filter that each
individual is eligible to pass through. Only when there are no evil thoughts
in your heart can you pass through. Those around the wall have some chance of
entering the wall and can actually enter it. However, by arousing evil
thoughts immediately, it is bounced back by a strong repulsive force. And they are going to go toward the thick wall
standing on the way. They are bumping their body to wall But the wall is thick. Hundreds of millions of youths bump their body
over and over. But many people fell down from wall. There are many people who
are tired and some of them are dying from a wound at last. In addition, there
is the person returning from the enchanting wall. There are many people who
do not arrive at the wall either. The enchanting obstacle is whispering
gDoesn't do a dropout." "Come to my enchanting obstacleh@@And it seem to
whisper@@@@ gYou have to break
my embryo shell by the sperm of you!h We have to realize.@@"Don't run away. Don't give uph We are suffering situation for the greed that is
new from a desire for exclusive possession now. 5.5.5 Realization with The homeless Buddhist priest of
the Zen It
can be alone to pass through the wall. The mind shock will be made with a
reflection obstacle. The accidental resonance with the individual is receives
him into a wall. Even
if many people faced with the wall at random, the wavelength of the mind is
just disturbed. It cannot be resonant with a wall and is bounced to the back
by a strong mind wave. In other words this obstacle is the filter for us to
get the qualification. The
homeless Buddhist priest of the Zen with having no surviving relatives
realized something. He lost his mother when he was young, and he grew while
learning the life style of world by reckless greed in spite of fate. He was
troubled to the greed falling in love to the woman who was different in
social position to him. After that he felt his ugliness of this his mind and
ran away from this world to the nature world. He
walked aimlessly, exposed to the ray and he endured against strong wind in
the rain. There is not a relying person. He has to endure fatigue of the
heart and the pain of the body by oneself. It is hard daily life. He was
treated like a beggar from a person and he ran away around for escape from a
dog with a child. It was awful hot day in the summer. It was cold wind day in
the winter. Weather deserted him, and the hardship is already changed to
despair. Greed has been lost, and he hates his miserable mind reflecting
miserably. And he asked himself. As
time passes, he is used to any life style. When he was used to live a life
that it lost, envy to the earthly life has disappeared incredibly. And then
as soon as presence of mind came out, it and a field of new vision almost
simultaneously were opened. He realizes the truth of the teaching of Buddha
for life at last. Five senses and all the body turned to same direction, and
he took in energy of the wall for the first time in resonance with a wall.
And then he has begun to walk to the new direction. Nature seems to speak to
him. He gets into the new world. However, he cannot let us pass the wall even
if it is it. Even if his desperate persuasion, we are not believable. We
can't understand a state of the realization because we are controlled by old
greed. I
will compare them with an insect. Many
insects are attracted to a light and gather to an outside sash. "Go
round to the entrance hall to enter inside of a glass window. Withdraw at
least once and turn around" He shouts aloud from inside or said the
same word from their back. However, they believe that fellows come to there
to steal the good place, so do not leave the place. Window
nearest at inside are a good position for them. They can't abandon the
uneasiness. He has known the stupidity of the friend from this point in time.
He
was known the life of the tragedy of a human in many places. The life to
writhe in nature is. He told, "Actual itself is emptiness;
emptiness itself is actualiσ¦₯FF¦₯σj"
"Asks to a bare pillar about the lifeiIΙqΛζj" They slipped out from earthly life
after having endured on suffering and he was kind and was able to watch
earthly life again strictly. The way of their admonition did not do so-called
lecture directly and also was not concrete. He induced the human for each
life to penetrate into each individual mind by spiritual awakening. It is the world of the realization.
You must not forget that there is love of nature which it does not turn into
there. They worshiped nature as a teacher on such life and stretched out
themselves there and cleansed a mind. I
had often gone to hill behind to rest my mind since 15 years old. I was
filled with deep emotion in there. I intoxicated in nature. If I asked it
that nature would answer by all means. It is nature itself. If there was a
certain person, nature conducted an individual to right path and guided to
the living way of the individual spiritually. Nature
will let you notice everlastingness of life constituting the space which the
individual feels a life, but I do not know more than it. It would become
pretty one, there are trees and plants and animals and nature if I did so.
And I feel great compassion everywhere of nature.@It developed from Hinayana to Mahayana. We
live in the Hinayana in the flow of Mahayana. It is same as a cell
constructing me. Hinayana(¬ζ§³)@
Mahayanaiε槳j@ I
live in just instant in the life system (biochemistry reaction system) of
3,600 million years. Buddha
speaks it to ΙΕ@ g£}π@ΰΥπ¦RΰV EEEE³ql ΰoΜ}ππ£κΔΖRςΙΉρ ₯Μ@«ΜlΙTΏΧΙΰΧ΅h 5.5.6 Affection (friendship) born in the bottomless
society The animal including humankind is
controlled by a desire for exclusive possession. Human majority believe the
world that is deceiving person and is deceived person. gCheating each otherg or
"cunning or tacticsg It
spoke in a foregoing chapter. Shall there be the person who wants to live
while wearing down a nerve in such world? The majority of people cannot give
up to eat something in their mind. They must look for the person who makes
them feel better among the people who were oppressed to escape from the
uneasiness of each other. There is wife and children. They are satisfied with
sexual intercourse and the child care instinct that sexual desire causes. What
is the method to be satisfied at the possessive desire stage? There is it. Transformation
of the desires for exclusive possession includes an honorary desire and
exhibitionism. Therefore, you should make an inferior person in a group. And
you oppress a inferior person if you are oppressed by a boss. The repetition
is seen in pyramid structure. Then
what should a person fallen into a lowest level do? You can't make an
inferior person from yourself, you can't satisfy yourself anymore. You
tormented the worker of the mentally-disabled person, but there is not the
satisfactory reaction. You seem miserable. n, but there is not the
satisfactory reaction. You seem miserably. The
boss is angry at him with trifling failure. His face seems miserably. I want
boss to keep angry to him more strongly. However, would he laugh if I fail? I
expect to make him further attacks. And will you curse him? I hate to be
laughing. I can't endure my mind that is cursed if I am him. Why do I feel
joy in such a thing? How is the reason? He
may not allow me to laugh if I cannot allow laughing. Will we scold each
other? I do not have a qualification to attack him. We are both slave of
boss. There is not the guarantee that I improve even if he was gotten angry
by boss. The
boss is angry to him with dull failure. His face seems miserably. I feel
sorry for him. It is needed his existence for me. He can hear my complaint to
make my fun after all. His
existence repeating the same as me a failures is necessary. My friend is just
him. My friend is only him. Other guys only laugh with the eyes while looking
down on always. He is the only one understanding a complaint heartily. Also
I'm the only one understanding him. Both he and I have to please each failure
of the person. We are a poor person. We are a miserable person. I feel
relaxed if I talk about pains with him. He is an oppressed friend same as me.
I do not need cautious to flatter for him. I want to need him. His
outstanding job is my joy. My outstanding job is his joy even if my mistake
may be laughed at by him. My outstanding job is his outstanding even if my
outstanding may be laughed at by him. My mistake may be laughed at by him. My
complaint may be laughed at by him. He will understand my act soon. As for
him, the sense of superiority that I feel is no meaning. We are equal. The
mind of forcing people to the lowest level changes it this way. And a desire
as exclusive possession changes. 5.5.7@
Otoya Miyagi
speaks {ιΉνsays gI can't recognize the difference
between the person who loves himself and person who love his fame. How the
ability does need to defend his fame and property? Do both are magnifying
him? Actually his personality is to be conscious of his evaluation from
society. There are relatively few desires for the self. The person who feels
pity for another person and the person performing charity does not worry his
property decreases. But the person thinking only his position will push down
another person aside. He only thinks his promotionh This
fact may be performing the process that a desire for exclusive possession
changes into desire of love. The desire occurs if a human being lives
together. Love and the unity of the group occur against an outside group.
There were the people who thought about many people were saved from tormented
people. The people who assume Christ a representative are. American
social psychologists is claimed gWhat is the difference at loving
oneself or loving one's honor? What is the difference with keeping his reputation
and protecting his property? In fact what's said his personality is to be
conscious of reputation for oneself?h But
there is not big difference between loving one's honor. Furthermore, it is
that the person loving money or a person loving honor loves self too. Isn't
he love himself maintaining honor of the self, and raising the money? It is
social psychology. Nobody do to take responsibility even if many common
people are sacrificed and continued suffering. A person standing in the top
of the evolution of the life is strong. It is severe and cruel to live in
society for him. The reality is different from an ideal. Our purpose is to
become the leader of all people. It is rights he love himself and maintain
honor and love increasing money. What do they live for? Even if the joy to
win against their struggle or the Prime Minister who he reached the top, he
feel threatened to worry the seat from the moment of next Prime Minister. An uneasy feeling attacks it
consistently and settles down in a mind. There is not the calm mind in long
time. As a result, the mind feeling a relaxation is influenced by a desire
for exclusive possession. The Prime Minister, CEO, a president Leader at
group, a staff system, it is needed to maintain the top of the desire for exclusive
possession. Desire for possession is needed to maintain the system of the
compound pyramid structure. But it is meaningless from a standard of the
evolution almost. of the evolution almost. It
can't permit this if it watched this system from the person who advanced of
the evolution. It don't permit he think only people suffering but also
structure getting only satisfaction of own. It can't permit a social system
that let you recognize his personality and the position of the leader. He do
not think to save a person. He does not know that he can save a person by
desire called this love that only the person who kept on suffering noticed.
The human being is Son of God. They are all same Son of God. The human being
must love each other. Trust and the friendship are born from there. The
method to satisfy one's greed is only one. You give the desire that everybody
wants. If you can do it you get the love for the first time by people and can
thereby meet one's desire to want. Everybody is satisfied that anyone is
loved from anyone. The
pleasant feeling of the desire for exclusive possession crystallizes with a
noble pleasant feeling called the love, and the quality of the pleasant
feeling changes. Greed, arrogance, vainglory, the hypocrisy are moderated.
Another person gets the better position though I have superior ability than
him. There is no meaning such as status and honor to the evolution of the
humankind. This is dissatisfaction. Another person more brags though I want
to brag. I do not like this. Another person does not obey this moral though I
obey it. This is unpleasant. Such greed satisfying is not moderating. Peace
comes after would become unnecessary to mind the action of other person.
Christ sees such a society to God. The
religion is occurred to put a group on the rail of the evolution with the
whisper of God. However, this is very severe. The religion sense becomes
extinct perfectly by transformation of the evolution called the remodeling of
DNA based on life evolution by the learning in the near future. However, it
contributes to make the love from a desire for exclusive possession. It
crystallized the form as love. An accomplished form of the possessiveness is
showed here. It becomes fun when I talk with that person. The person feels a
love by the five senses. 5.5.6 Individual
NGOs 1. Mr. Tetu
Nakamura of Peshawar-kai An NGO is a
non-governmental organization. It is an organization that does not belong to
any country. For example, there is an activity in Afghanistan run by Satoshi
Nakamura of Peshawar-kai (Peshawar-kai website). Waya also attended when he
performed in Nagoya. While introducing slides of irrigation projects and
agricultural projects, he spoke clearly and concisely about the relationship
between Al Qaeda, the government, and ordinary people, and I was impressed by
their way of life. Many
people think of Afghanistan as a country. However, many tribes did not have a
sense of belonging to the country, and the villagers were told that they
placed al Qaeda and the central government at an equal distance. I heard that
one of the comrades had died during the activity and had to withdraw.
However, as far as I can see on the website, it seems that they are doing
their best to raise funds through performances, sales of publications, and
donations. In response, Japan, along with Mongolia and Bhutan, adopted a
policy of encircling China, and Afghanistan became an important country. As a
result, because he lifted up the Peshawar-kai, he was made a person on the
Afghan side by the terrorists, and he met with terrorism. He is an example of
a victim of a country competing for hegemony. 2.
Naoko Takato Also, Naoko
Takato left a deep impression on me. She went to Iraq alone to do
"humanitarian aid" and was detained by militants. At that time,
Japan, which was supporting the United States, quickly set up a "bashing
campaign" through the mass media and agitated the public's condemnation.
However, foreign media outlets reported her dedication to improving the lives
of ordinary Iraqis, resulting in a rapid drop in tone. It goes without saying
that she was liberated not by the Japanese government, but by the Iraqi
people. The above
are the people who go to the site, are influenced by something, feel
motivated to act, and are dedicated to their activities. 3. NGOs
CAN HELP Thailand Can Help
ThailandFuuHealthiNjvuEducationi³ηjvuLovei€jvuPurposeiΪIjv On the
other hand, there are NGOs that were launched in a different form. Waya was
on duty at the organization's office, so she knew how the organization
worked. The
organization was established around 1996 as an aid activity for the
northeastern region of Thailand between Professor Ray of Nanzan University
and an acquaintance in Thailand. In such a case, donations of 50 million yen
or 60 million yen can be collected by saying that the organizer is a
university professor. About 100 people also participated in the school
construction activities, and they were divided into three groups and
participated in each school construction. It's a
one-week, two-week life, but we start by making a bedroom in the classroom.
Curtains should be put up to keep out insects. Lie down in the curtains. We
couldn't use paper in the toilet, so we got permission to use it only for
Japanese people, and wiped our buttocks with it. The used paper cannot be
washed away, so it was collected and burned. Sleeping in an environment where
geckos squeak and crawl around, discovering scorpions and getting excited, learning
how to make Thai food from a local Thai woman, etc. It is an activity that
makes them happy to experience their first experience. The villagers are also
kind because the school construction donations are out. The meals included
fruits such as mangosteen and durian, as well as tom yum soup, sticky rice,
and coconut. On the final day, you can experience many rare and valuable
experiences, such as sightseeing in places that can only be visited in rural
areas, watching cows giving birth, and so on. Since Sakeaw
borders with Cambodia, I was able to observe how Cambodians and Thais come
and go at the border. Landmines are buried near the border, and it is
dangerous to enter without permission... I will return after learning a lot.
People who participate are pure and come to participate with the question,
"Is there anything I can do to help?" and go to graduation.
Therefore, many of the management are students, and they must have brought it
from somewhere without knowing anything. There were rules that were very
unacceptable. Insufficient processing was also seen in accounting, etc., but
it may be good to think of it as a study. Now, the
teacher has returned to his hometown in the United States, and the
organization has moved its office outside about 15 years ago, so donations
have decreased significantly. In addition, Thailand is now civilized, and
infrastructure development has progressed even in rural areas. Therefore, it
has shifted its focus of activities to support minority hill tribes and
continues to provide support. 5.5.9
Nursing care problems due to affection Each of our
bodies is a complex biochemical reaction system. Reactions are active during
growth, and the energy that maintains the body increases, so each person can
work and gain energy. Being able to live alone. When you become an old man
and take care of yourself, it means that you can no longer maintain your own
body, and you have to obtain the energy to live from others. Therefore, the
caregiver must take both his portion and the person being cared for, and give
part of it to the person being cared for. Even so, it is impossible for a
caregiver to distribute energy to the caregiver for a person who is doing
their best to maintain the caregiver's body. The caregiver will wear out over
time. Therefore, the person receiving care must convert the energy necessary
for their own survival into the form of money. The fact that nursing care is
going well is probably because the person being cared for has accumulated
energy in the form of money. On top of that, they will be forced to take care
of them according to family ties, old traditions, and habits. "Therefore,
many women are involved in nursing care." My mother
took care of her father, who had a stroke when I was young. My father passed
away in the spring of the age of 9, repeating sleep and wake up. My father's
room was called a tatami room, and it was the most splendid room in our
house, but it was cold in winter with no light. , sometimes the visiting
doctor has to leave her advice and some sort of patch to turn the sick person
over, and my ignorant mother sticks it to her sore skin on her lower back.
was No one else entered the room. I don't know how hard it was for her mother
to take care of her father. However,
when I listen to everyone's stories, I get the sense that it's a serious
matter. @@ Waya
2016/05/26 07:39 As I wrote
in other communities, the issue of nursing care costs for relatives is
limited by the amount of pension income. The Civil Code stipulates the
obligation to provide support, but no penalties are imposed, so kind people
pay the price. In the old days, there was a saying that women had no homes in
the three worlds, and that women generally had less income, including
pensions, and men were arrogant. Husbands hold the power of life and death
for their wives, and from a young age, women have been imprinted in their
brains as social conventions. So people around me think it's normal.
Therefore, savvy parents, knowing that, would make even a girl a civil
servant, including a schoolteacher, or a vocational nurse, to ensure her
financial independence. Mikaeri Fubijin May 17, 2016
14:00 When it
comes to worrying about old age, everyone seems to think of money first.
Certainly, I think the problem of economic power is a big one. However, I
think there are many problems that can't be solved with just that... First of
all, it seems that there are cases where people think that if their
relationships, including family, neighbors and friends, are not rich, they
will let their money do the talking. I'm currently taking care of my
mother-in-law, how can I make connections with people? I feel that There may
be personality issues, and everyone gets stubborn as they get older. But that
doesn't mean you can cut off relationships with people and live For one
thing, I want the person being cared for to keep her smiling. She is stubborn
and refuses to take care of her, or she withdraws because she doesn't want
her neighbors to know that she needs nursing care. How will she treat the
person who takes care of her when she becomes a caregiver? This mental
attitude becomes urgent when it becomes a real problem. Of course, this is
not something that is expected of those who have advanced cognition, but if
the person who is taking care of you is your own child, your girlfriend's
wife, or a professional caregiver, you will be complaining and complaining
all the time. Won't she only return a certain amount of care? If she always
smiles calmly, I think she will be willing to help even if it is troublesome.
I know that I am really tired of caring for an elderly person who only thinks
backwards when I am taking care of them, so in the unlikely event that I am
the one being cared for, I want to be an elderly person who brightens up the
people around me. I'm here. I looked into the hospital. When my mother said,
"I'm going home because Sakurako is waiting for you," I got
impatient, saying that if I didn't do something, I could see things I
couldn't see. I wrote it in a letter and had it looked at, it was kind of
serious. What distracts you from restless days?
"I want to find it." As I wrote in my consultation, her mother's
urine suddenly has a very strong smell, and as a result, it may be coming
from the internal organs, so I'm thinking of going to an internal medicine
doctor. At the urology department, there was nothing wrong with my urine, and
the doctor said it was your problem and ignored me. It's not a matter of
sensitivity, it's an abnormally pungent odor and a medicinal odor like rotten
bamboo shoots. Sakurako
May 13, 2016 10:25 My mother developed depression seven
years ago, and that time was the hardest. Her legs are still walking without
any physical care, but her mental illness is hard on her family. She also had
anxiety and she was under the care of a psychiatrist. Because she developed
her disease, she can't go to dinner or be alone. Come to
think of it, in the early days, I used a hospital ladder at dawn or in the
middle of the night. There was no bad place even if I checked it, and I rode
an ambulance quite a bit. She ended up in a psychosomatic clinic and she was
diagnosed with depression. Besides depression, I still have anxiety, it's
better than it was in the beginning, but it's really been a twist in the last
7 years. During that time, she broke her femur and finally broke her femur.
The increase is the consultation ticket and the degree of nursing care, now
it is nursing care 3. The care manager is also thinking about this and that,
but the person himself is... It would be nice if she could go and enjoy a
little bit of dinner, but I can't recommend it because it would make her feel
worse. Luckily for her, her husband is a nice person, so she's a mother
alone. I wish I had a child and siblings. There's no end to spitting it out,
so I'll leave it here for now. Mr. Yellow Tomato May 17, 2016 00:29 "There are many cases where a
house is built first and the inheritance of the parent's house is
abandoned." Inheritance abandonment is inheritance abandonment with
parents. In other words, they don't need parents or a home. I have houses all
over the place, so I thought, 'Get rid of all of them before you die! f is
what they say. Of course my daughters also built a house with my money.
Building a house isn't that hard, but I don't think it will be subject to
inheritance. I myself have a hobby house nearby, and I also have a home. I
can't let my daughters do such a poor thing to worry about living together.
Even if he falls asleep, he says that he has enough money to take care of him
24 hours a day and the cost of nursing care for about 20 years. I also have a
pension. I am a sweet parent, thinking that this is my duty as a parent. Theresa May 17, 2016 09:29 The
relationship between mother and daughter is difficult. The worst thing is
that the mother is insensitive. I've been living together, but I want to ask
others at my own expense for my old age. I think it would be good if people
didn't enjoy their own lives, and started working from a young age to Waya May 20, 2016 07:13 There was a
story about nursing insurance, so I'm going to put the story I heard.@The
following article is the true intention of long-term care insurance Long-term
care insurance started in April 2000. More than 15 years have passed since
the system was established.@The underlying law is the
Nursing Care Insurance Law. The
biggest reason for the creation of the long-term care insurance system is
that in the midst of the declining birthrate and aging population in Japanese
society, the ``welfare system for the elderly'' and ``health care system for
the elderly'' will continue to exist in the future. This was because it was
foreseen that the increase in expenses would lead to a financial collapse and
the system would become unsustainable. In the
"Law for Social Welfare for the Elderly," which supports the
welfare system for the elderly, self-payment of medical expenses for the
elderly was, in principle, free of charge. However, the budget was running out,
and the law had to be revised. It will be amended in the future. However,
the long-term care insurance was created, and the other side of it is that
career and non-career children who have moved from rural areas to Tokyo to
work cannot take care of their fathers and mothers who have left them in the
rural areas, so they cannot call them to Tokyo. Therefore, such a system was
enacted into law as a way to save money. Bureaucrats act in their own
interest first. Therefore, it is one of the measures to detect the method
desired by the bureaucrats early and to act in the same way. In the future,
relatives will take care of themselves at home. In the end, a friendly woman
who is close to her is forced to consume more than two people's energy for
herself and her caregiver due to local customs and shigarami. The women who
gather here have some tips on how to cut corners, so I feel a little
relieved. @@@@@Waya
May 20, 2016 07:22 Does your
mother have dementia? Then, I
sometimes worry that Ako might go through something like that too. All life
is destined to die by the laws of nature (the diffusion of energy), so it's
just a matter of cancer, brain damage, heart disease, or whatever. And what I
want is that there is no apoptosis like cells, so I live long and die without
suffering. If you keep talking loudly here, your stress will be relieved and
that may happen. The Internet is a tool that allows anyone to express their
thoughts. Write anything. My parents grew up in a large family in
the countryside and lived in a humane environment in the neighborhood and
community interaction. The old man, unable to move, died in his bedridden
room, surrounded by his children and grandchildren. He insists, "Kaigo
Care Management Helper? I don't know about that! I don't need him in this
world!" Now, she is starting a barrier-free renovation to make her
parents' house a place for community interaction. I hope that nursing care
and people who are tired of childcare will be healed. Hiromin May 05, 2016 20:47 Nice to
meet you, Miho! Thank you for taking care of my mother. Please rest a little.
I am also the daughter-in-law of the eldest son, so I plan to see off my
parents-in-law from now on. I'm prepared... How can I take care of myself? ?
In that case, what you should do and what you can do now... I have something
to worry about... Thank you in advance. Let's exchange information with
everyone. Mr. Ku May 4, 2016 21:43. Hospitals
are happy to accept bedridden people, but they try to get you out of bed
rather than the age where you can walk and talk. Two days later, I got a call
from the hospital. "I'm furious that I want to go home." "I'm
furious that I can't connect even if I call home." I'm angry because my
teacher took away the snacks." "I'm making a fuss about eating
boro, so can I buy it?" "When will you come next? Not today?
Tomorrow? I think it's really annoying old man. But I'm already doing my
best. Three hours round trip to the hospital. Even so, I go to the hospital
three times a week, and I go out once and take him home. Another hour round
trip to go home. But we can actually do more. There's nothing you can't do if
you have the will to do it. But I don't wanna do it anymore Hello Anko-san (^o^). For an only
child, I think that the presence of parents is very special in a way. Well, I
have a child of my own, but until I got married, I was the only blood
relative. Kyoko-san's father knew that Kyoko-san was an important and
important daughter until the very end. My father
is also in the hospital, and sometimes when his anger switches on, he gets
out of control, but he never gets angry at me. increase. You'll be relieved
when I come I guess I play the role of a mother who protects her father lol.
As for her wife, Ba-san, she still seems to feel that she has to protect her.
That's why I'll stay by your side until the very end! I think. It's a little
annoying but lol.v Mr. Ku May
08, 2016 17:23 "It's a big problem that's
different from physical care, isn't it?" The facility I visited today
was about 130,000 yen a month. It's a common facility, but the rooms are for
2 or 4 people. You can use
diapers, tissues, and so on as much as you want, and you don't have to pay
for the medicine you get from the clinic, so it seems that you can pay only
130,000 yen per month. Sounds pretty cheap, doesn't it? The group home on the
same premises costs 100,000 for a single room, but it seems that all personal
belongings and medicines are owned by the user. Well, if it's about this
much, you can manage with a pension, but in my case, my mother will stay at
home, so she will have to pay extra for living, and we will have to maintain
the house, and we will have to pay taxes and maintenance. I have to think
about it too. If you live
in a facility with two people, you can consider disposing of the house, but
if one person is in a facility, it will be like living alone, and living
expenses will be doubled. It's hard. So, if my father moves in, I will have
to think about streamlining small expenses such as co-op home delivery,
yogurt home delivery, and Duskin rental. @@Kuu-san May
27, 2016 9:47 I am forced
to conclude. The psychiatrist told me that I had to talk about the future
with my family, so I was forced to leave work and go to the hospital. I think
it's probably a story about lowering the level of consciousness by using
psychiatric drugs on an old man who doesn't sleep at all at night. with the
consent of the family @@Waya May
27, 2016 @ 12:26 The lives
of aging parents will one day be in the hands of their children. If the
children cut corners in caregiving, that's it. I want you to live as much as
you love your parents. How old are Kuu's parents? What are the chances of recovery?
This is my thoughts from a man's point of view, but no matter how much you
pull it, it will go away at some point. Based on them, how about considering
your own aging scene and thinking about it enough? No matter what the
conclusion, you have done everything for her parents, so I don't think she
will be resented by them, even if they appreciate them. Waya May 27, 2016 @ 12:26 The lives of aging parents will one day
be in the hands of their children. If the children cut corners in caregiving,
that's it. I want you to live as much as you love your parents. How old are
Kuu's parents? What are the chances of recovery? This is my thoughts from a
man's point of view, but no matter how much you pull it, it will go away at
some point. Based on them, how about considering your own aging scene and
thinking about it enough? No matter what the conclusion, you have done your
best for your parents, so I don't think she will be resented even if she is
thanked by her parents. Ako May 28, 2016 8:27 his father
was killed by his mother. Her mother, who wanted to take care of her
bedridden father alone, became violent as things got tougher. My father was
worried that my mother would fall apart, so he was discharged from the
hospital and never left her mother's side. My father, who has terminal
cancer, was killed by his cognitive mother's abuse. The mother hits, kicks,
hits her father with a stick, and forces food into her mouth. Waya May 28, 2016 @ 10:54 It must
have been very difficult for you to continue to care for your father who has
terminal cancer and your mother who has dementia. I think that the screaming
feeling that you write like the title is the manifestation of the unfeigned
heart of the person who stood there. By the way,
if Dad had known that she had terminal cancer, she would have been prepared
for death for herself. Then, about everything that my wife does for many
years, she says, "Sooner or later you'll die, so all you have to do is
put up with it. It's the same if you get beaten or die from aspiration
pneumonia. It's better to be together as much as possible. Wouldn't it be
better for the wife than for the husband to be married?h It depends on the
type of dementia the mother has, but in general, people with dementia have
poor judgment and live only with the emotions of the moment. Even if she
tried to do this, her body would not move satisfactorily, she would not have
the ability to make arrangements, and her father would not be able to move
her arms and legs properly, so she did not hit or kick. Is not it. She wanted
her father to be healed, so she had a fit of food, so it wasn't meant to be
malicious. It will be
difficult for the government and others to act unless evidence, such as a
video of the scene where the mother is acting violently, and evidence such as
bruises on her father's body, the date and frequency, etc. In any case, I
think that there are subtleties between a couple who have been together for a
long time, a man and a woman, which even children cannot enter. Your father's
death may have been a little hastened by the stress, but please accept that
the past was unavoidable and don't give up on your current need for nursing
care. I don't think she meant her mother to abuse her father. Her desire to
live and her desire to monopolize and take care of her father turned into
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