libido              sexual desire 

                         index   Possessiveness

 5.3 sexual desire 

 5.3.1 libido energy 

As mentioned in the qualia chapter, satisfying the code of the genetic information system written in DNA is unbearably pleasurable. What we are concerned with is ‘libido,' a subtle thing that lies concealed in the depths of our minds.

 

 Even when Ashura's parents were starved, they were driven by the irresistibly pleasurable desire of the genetic information system encoded by DNA and gave birth to Ashura.

In sexual desire, males and females seek sex hormones and try to sexual intercourse under any circumstances. And even for the born child, only those who survive inherit the DNA that matches the quality of their parents and wander around the endless circle of transmigration in the six posthumous worlds.

 

For animals with males and females, males are dominated by androgens (Generic term for steroid derivatives) and females are dominated by female hormones, trying to leave offspring.

 

   : male hormone / testosterone

Estradiol: Female Hormone / Estrogen

 

 In the case of human race , the female hormone estrogen is produced from the male hormone testosterone.  Therefore, men are the animals that they want women.

 In other words, it is the starting point for composition in which those who could not become women embrace women in search of female hormones. Don't you think male and female hormones very similar?  We are being dominated each hormone and trying to leave a child

 

A long time ago, an individual who could not be feminized due to the harsh external environment became a male and mated, meiotically divided while exchanging each DNA, and even a little, they leave an individual that can withstand the harsh external environment.  Adapted ones survive from various combinations. Furthermore, when males and females meet and the marital relationship deepens, oxytocin and other substances are secreted, creating a sense of unity. Prolactin, a hormone that amount of milk production controlled can possible to give birth to children periodically.

 

Prolactin is a hormone secreted by the pituitary gland of the brain and is involved in mammary gland differentiation and development, and milk synthesis and secretion. In mammals, it affects maternal behavior such as nesting and breastfeeding, and also induces hostile behavior (from the instinct to protect the offspring).

 

 By the way, in the case of men, it is also the effect of prolactin that causes the rapid loss of "sexual desire" after ejaculation orgasm.

 

He demands the sex to same female because a male choosing the same woman is only a little energy consumption. Therefore, male is easy better to obtain the same woman if want to request a sex because that is changing to a lower energy barrier.  Therefore, she can bring their baby up safely.

Young couples bring up a child through hardships after getting married from the ancient times. They are second son and daughter, so they have to survive it while cutting the newly developing farmland. And they is succeeded to there as the hometown of the child. But they have to obey a love of partner and the childcare instinct because, in that case, life is severe.

It's a mechanism that keeps to suppressed sexual intercourse until child growth.It is common for women to lose their libido while this hormone is being secreted. As a result, both husband and wife will be able to take the time to fulfill the common purpose of raising children. And they develop new land for raising children without feeling tired.

 

To give a specific example, 高村幸太郎, who is strongly associated with sex hormones, is in love with Chieko. As a result, he wrote the famous poem "Chiekosho" and built a statue of a maiden.

 

I don't think 高村幸太郎 would have created a work of staring maiden statues in Lake Towada without their loving 千恵子.

The instinct is strange and interesting. Because just feeling "cute" in child-rearing makes it fun to raise them even if it involves self-sacrifice. I wonder if it's an action that can be done with oxytocin and dopamine secretions so on. Love is the same, and you can inject energy that cannot be understood by theory without getting tired, just by feeling cute and lovable.

 

So, in my case.

 

Originally, I'm a timidity -minded person and thinking myself without vitality, I was obsessed with the spell that says, "Men should support women," and I didn't have the courage to persuade women. After old age, I had some time to spare and fell in love with my widow for about 12 months. Speaking of instinct, there is blatantly honest, but it is strange because it calms the mind.

Even if you say love, it's just about holding hands together to watch a movie or have a meal. However, probably because of that, my heart was at ease, and I was able to immerse myself in the proofreading of the homepage. By falling in love, I was able to concentrate on the work that required a long time, which is exactly what I can do in love. I realized that the power of love is the same as that of pseudo-parenting (spending with pet), and that the desire for self-organization encoded by DNA is satisfied and that unexpected energy can be put into it.

 

5.3.2 History of sex and my interpretation continued

Amoeba is asexually reproduced, but as many as eight types of protists such as Paramecium are known to be "sex-like". There are 16 homogenous populations that look the same but are genetically different. Then, when it evolves a little, it becomes an aphid that breeds only in females. The majority of fish are female. Males occur in medaka fish when the environment deteriorates. In the deep sea, some males are extremely dwarfed and become part of female organs. There are few chances to meet females, so it's perfect for reproduction without lowest energy.

 

 When it comes to mammals, the overwhelmingly large body male species have large number of females, such as the elephant seal. The different reason is that the male who wins the rival can concentrate only on seeding and not spending a lot of energy on raising children, so he can concentrate on maintaining his physical strength and sexual intercourse.

 

 The environmental dominance theory regarding male-female development and proliferation regarding breeding is the theory that when a species succeeds in breeding and saturates under a certain environment, it spreads in search of a new world. In this case, the theory is that having a combination of various genes has a higher probability of survival. However, no significant difference was found from the computer simulation calculation results.

 

 Recently, the "Red Queen" theory proposed by william.D. Hamilton in 1980 is influential.

 

It is the theory that when a gene is damaged by a virus or a harmful substance, it becomes sexual reproduction in order to prevent the copy from being passed on to the next generation, leaving only the good points (harmful gene exclusion theory). Among the remaining genes, those who have adapted to the environment will survive according to the above-mentioned environmental control theory.

 

 The gene that determines sex is the SRY gene. When it begins to act, other gene clusters related to the gonads (Wnt4, 3βHSD, Dax-1) and the like begin to move in sequence, the internal reproductive organs are completed, and the external reproductive organs also begin to differentiate by sex.

 

 In males, the SRY gene starts to move slightly earlier than in females, the central part (medulla) of the gonad primordium begins to develop, the cortex around it disappears, and the testis is created. Seminiferous tubules develop in the testes, producing germ cells that make sperm and cells that synthesize and secrete male hormones (androgens).

 

The Muller duct, which becomes the uterus, begins to degenerate, and the vas deferens is formed from the Wolf duct, and the penis, scrotum, etc. are differentiated.

 

Androgen (English: androgen) is a type of steroid and one of the steroid hormones that works in the body. Also called androgen or androgen. In males, it is mainly secreted by the Leydig cells of the testis. In females, androgens secreted by the granule layer cells of the follicle in the ovary are aromaticized and converted to estrogen by the follicular epithelial cells in the follicle. Testosterone is a steroid hormone that belongs to androgens.

 

 Sexual differentiation of the brain is strongly associated with the action of androgens. Female hormones derived from the mother, placenta, ovaries, etc. are not involved in fetal brain differentiation. From about the 8th week of fertilization, male hormones are synthesized in males and estrogen, which is a female hormone, is synthesized in females, and peaks 10 to 14 weeks later.

 

 If there is an SRE gene on the Y chromosome, it is a man, otherwise it is a woman. If this does not work well, it causes a gender identity disorder. However, the properties are not determined by that alone, and the influence of sex hormones is also great.

 

 There are at most dozens of genes on the Y chromosome, and most of them are junk. Why can the Y chromosome, which is only one-third the size of the X chromosome, be paired with the X chromosome?

 

 Until 300 million years ago, it seems that both genes were the same size. The reason for the decrease in size is that the orientation of part of the DNA on the Y chromosome was reversed, leaving only the sex-determining genes represented by SRY.

 

 The ratio of sex chromosomes in the human genome is about 5%. Therefore, there is a possibility that the sexual chemical reaction will be different between men and women with a probability of 1/20. It is not funny even if there are gender differences in various functions and characteristics.

 

 What about the future? It will be an FS novel (my opinion), but if science and technology enough to fly in space are developed, males with a lot of energy loss will not be needed. Reproduction is artificially made. Emotions such as pleasure are felt and processed by the brain, so it is sufficient to instill that function in the brain.

 

 If men and women exist in the narrow space of a spaceship, the conflict of reproduction will destroy the system. Dawkins, a geneticist famous for advocating the selfish gene, said, "Organisms are just the actors of the time who inherit DNA."

 

5.3.3 Why are men and women attracted to each other?

It is not the neocortex that makes sexual decisions, but the older parts of the brain, such as the hypothalamus and limbic system, which are deep in the brain. This is also the part that secretes narcotic-like substances in the body such as dopamine and is responsible for emotions and stimuli such as pleasure. Also, because the genetic information system dominates, it is no wonder that animals other than humans, which have a lot of neocortex, act without braking.

 

Animals respond to the opposite sex by smell when nerve cells with sperm activity appear in the nose during the fetal period, move deeper into the brain as they grow, and finally fit in the hypothalamus. I like the opposite sex because the sense of smell is transmitted directly to the old brain, secreting narcotic substances in the body and moving instincts and emotions. Therefore, the odorants and sex pheromone attractants emitted by female butterflies are unbearable attractants for males. On the contrary, in many animals, females have a sharp sense of smell and have a tendency to choose their spouse.

 

Are ovulatory women more sexually aroused and interested in men with a strong androstanol odor? However, not all women respond to one man in one pattern, as there are still other odors when viewed in detail.

 

Examination of the major tissue-adaptive antigen complex genes (HLA) showed that females with a type of HLA gene cluster preferred males that were significantly different.

 

According to an experiment by Suma Jacob of the University of Chicago in 2002, body odors that are too close to each other, such as siblings and parents, and conversely, body odors that are far from each other are not preferred. It was found that many women prefer the body odor of men, one of which has the same gene as their father.

 

 That is, the preferred scent for each woman is the scent of men who are not too close to each other in similar groups. Do you like him ...?

 

  is this for real. Humans have many neocortex, so this is not the only factor.

 

By the way, human males develop their vision, and information about the first female goes to the visual cortex of the neocortex one after another. And since the impression of a woman with clear eyes and nose remains strong, does her visual cortex like a beautiful woman? Because the pulse pattern is recognized without using the energy of the cerebral neuron synaptic circuit, a beautiful woman is engraved in the mind rather than a vague woman.

 

Cosmetic companies are likely to have such a beautiful no-ha, researching many subjects and creating new fashions for beautiful women every day for product sales. Therefore, recently, the number of women with clear eyes and nose has increased.

 

5.3.4 Visual sensation that attracts the opposite sex

Sexual selection is thought to be that "female preferences are genetically determined. Descendants’ females still prefer individuals whose male traits preferred by earlier females are more pronounced."

 

Since the daughter inherits the father's genes, she inherits the qualities that attract the father's woman. The same is true for grandchildren. Similarly, posterity women inherit the qualities of her ancestral father, so the male body evolve specific visually appealing body regardless of the external environment.

 

  For species with developed vision, the development of parts preferred by the opposite sex is essential for acquiring the opposite sex. And the quality of the site is fixed as a gene as a tendency of spouse choice. As a result, it has a negative effect on survival and is more likely to be weeded out by natural selection. The direction of sexual selection is different from the direction of evolution. For example, males animals are flashy even if they are easily targeted by enemies. Male animal with fangs that penetrate the upper jaw will try to hold them. And they become too large like moose until the part as   fangs and horn will be specialized unnecessarily.

 

Human is also a species that has developed vision too. Therefore, as mentioned in 5.3.7, young men and women despite having no money, have grand items such as ornaments and buy luxury cars with the money given by their parents, in order to appeal to each other visually. I also admit that they will spend their parent's money ridiculously and uselessly.

 

What makes each other excitement during sexual intercourse is that when a man sees a woman during sexual intercourse between a man and a woman. At that time, her facial expression looks beautiful. In general, men stimulate women and feel pleasure while seeing in their happy faces. Though the woman closes her eyes and enjoys the pleasant stimulus as her instinctive stimulus is transmitted from her entire body to the brain. She doesn't have to have her eyes open. In a little more detail, women are deeply enjoying the pleasure of having a lot of dopamine and intracerebral opioids secreted into the striatum, which is the neural basis of "like" and "want". Men are excited about the appearance of women, who are very happy and writhing. For women, it seems to enjoy all of stimulus sense of smell and sight and touch. For some women, she longs to be embraced by a muscular man and wants to date a handsome guy.

 

5.3.5 Sexual desire from the sense of touch

Progeny maintenance libido is a very strong desire because it is written in the DNA code and secretes sex hormones in the form of self-organization. The hippocampus and amygdala, which are close to the old brain, play an active role. Dopamine brain endocrine secretions play an active role. Animals remain genetically integrated instincts, so after the seasons or castration, nothing happens. For example, the castrated female cat at our house felt familiar with the male cat of the other party, and although she sat down with her and pretended to be a married couple, she did not act sexually. The neighbor cat, who had been castrated, also seemed to feel comfortable when the previously related female cat estrus and rubbed her body but did not act sexually.

 

The sexual center is in the hypothalamus of the brain, called the diencephalon. A man dominated by the sex hormone estrogen meets a woman who secretes estrogen. Men are attracted to the lustrous and attractive female body, and they want to hug more and become captivated by the female body. Then, the two people who meet each other secrete oxytocin and dopamine in the brain feel a sense of unity by the command of self-organization of their DNA. Also, the distribution of opioids and dopamine in the brain makes them seek sensual pleasure more. If a child is born in the meantime, the child-rearing instinct will be demonstrated, and the child will be raised even at the cost of self-sacrifice. The instinct is logically incomprehensible because the genetic information system by self-organization of DNA.    

  

The sexual center is in the diencephalon, and this libido sometimes is reacted without your cerebral command. As we wrote in the chapter on qualia, humans have developed mirror neuron synapse circuit, so they can have sex in the brain without a partner.

 

chattering in places with a lot of people such as meeting place such as restaurants and coffee shops, the topic of molestation or erotism always exists and never disappears.  Now the body including the breasts touches each in buses and trains, a strange love occurs between a man and a woman, and some people are satisfied with the sensual pleasure of each other. That is called carnal desire. After getting married, I hear that some people endure even the slightest dissatisfaction of the couple because of the joy of this sensuality. Also some lady want to be crazy about their host's stimulation that provide drinking service so on for women.

Since human evolution have started, the biochemical reaction system inherits the reaction(reproduction), so bring the second genitals to the front so as to appeal visually and clarified the connection between men and women sexual desire that humans need to live as humans.

 

  5.3.6 Why must the sexual desire walk the shade in every times?

  Let's talk by a metaphor

There was the person who had power and money in a certain country in old days. He worked as apprenticeship for many people for childhood. He was deceived, and another person let him to take responsibility, and he was scolded, and he had worked without eating for three days. Also he has undergone all of trouble and violence and hardships.

 

However, he has learned a wisdom and a tactics and a human weakness while enduring them. After that, he all oppressed the people who faced each other, and built power and the wealth. Of course, each trouble of each time is memorized in the feeling like the yesterday's event. He does not want to easily hand a person the wealth that he built. He does not hand it over to a person. But the time to die came to him at last. "I would like to give it to my beloved son if possible". He would tell his son with that in mind,

 

 "I may die now. Still, I must talk to you. Hear it well. I lived in this big house and were praised and exaggerate my own importance from people. And I got the thing which I hoped all.  But, after I died, in fact it is not easy to get wealth that you only work hard., many people approach you, and threaten to give him your wealth and power. Also, the person who does not have money deceives you by all stratagems.

 

 You grow and reach the age that you want female soon. Libido is said to be blind. Don't get close to a woman. Every night, every night, the image of woman's body will fill your mind. Do not approach the poor woman. The face is a Bodhisattva, but the mind is a demon. Surely you are deceived.  It is too late for you after being deceived. She takes you in and gets wealth with the power and then she will abandon you. Or she may be a woman of somebody who is going to get power and wealth. ・・・・・”

 

You are dominated by the sex hormone testosterone. When it meets a woman who secretes estrogen, you are attracted to the lustrous and attractive female body, and when they hug, they want to hug more and become captivated by the female body. Then, the two people who meet each other secrete oxytocin and feel a sense of unity by the command of self-organization of their DNA, and the distribution of opioids and dopamine in the brain makes them seek sensual pleasure each other.

 

    After he talked to a son such speech, he talked to himself.

 

Even if I talked it him unwillingly, he wouldn't control the sexual desire". I must regulate it by a law before it's too late.

I have many women. But monogamy is good. Parent loves children. The relations of parents and children become stronger and stronger in establishing after this system. In in reverse, I know the weakness and fragility of the family in there.

 

 I make a complete hierarchy of status and let adopt this system to compete with fellow feeling (elitism). If I should give authority and wealth of the degree to some children, they would try to add their children to our side somehow. A parent is permissive with children like I am permissive with a son. Even if I have their parent worked hard as like a slave, they try to feed children it. They don't quit a work. They must be surely endured for their child.  They become a hard worker and must go in the world to work. It became easy to control people in fact. No, it is not yet. After all it is uneasy even if I admit monogamy. A method watching each other by a custom or manners or morality by the public is good for him (surveillance system). Let's instill the following content into the public

 

1. The marriage of the different hierarchy of circumstances has many problems from the disagreement of circumstances.

 

2. I spread a morality "sexual desire is vulgar greed" and introduce the custom “looking down each other” on it in the society.

 

I let you instill the morality from childhood. You should memorize their social morality. If my son runs into lady, my son does not make a mistake until I decide his bride. And my wealth will be inherited from generation to generation. I must be able to maintain it while a beloved person lives,"

He muttered in this way.

 

They controlled the greed of the sex to give priority to possessiveness greed. And mass people had began to enjoy the sexual intercourse in the backside gradually in this way. The person who married is satisfied by a greed with a shady feeling called immorality made under the monogamy. Also suppressed mind was released by a prostitute, a mistress, the word adultery. Eroticism movies and eroticism weeklies are not discontinued as an outlet of the sexual desire. On the contrary, it becomes the growth industry. The earnest discussion for the sex turns into a commerce-based indecent language.

 

(Monogamy is strongly and widely influenced Christianity in Western countries. Japan has accepted it from Meiji era.)

There are male and female in all of age. Men and women living in the backward region of the Amazon too who play a drama not to understand social contradiction. The author should write something to want many people to know the way of life of oneself. It may seem story means for evolution of your mind.

 

Then there is a melodrama which is broadcasted at some channel every day where man and woman marry. Somebody disturbs their marriage. We can see the fight between human greed and the organization in the social novel drama. And it always includes a drama of love affair sex between men and women’s for us. They play the chief character of the drama which none of us understands. We read novels and essays and understand just one copy of the mind of the main character, and we sympathize with him or her in our cerebrum virtual image. We feel a sense of unity with the main character of the drama. And we share joy and sadness. And we absorb it on virtual space as own experience.

 

As for the novel, the topic of the copyright is not gone. The author should write it about a claim of the social contradiction. The author should write something to want many people to know the way of life of oneself. It may seem story means for evolution of your mind.

 

    miscellaneous

Changing the subject, the topic of the pervert does not lack a weekly. Pervert happens in a crowded train. A sexual crime occurs. Lust is the act of the males which cannot stand sexual greed. Some of men and women touch each body in a train and are satisfied and may feel with joy of the sensuality. It is called joy of the sensuality.  In the meantime, sexual impulses are induced at the diencephalic level. And the cerebrum desperately suppresses it with a delay of 0.5 seconds. In other words, the battle with lust begins within oneself.

 

After marriage, I heard there is the person who endures the trifling dissatisfaction for joy of sensuality between the couple.

After male has started to hunting life, it clarified the division of labor system by man and woman based on joy of sexual excitement.  He demands the sex to same female because a male choosing the same woman is only a little energy consumption. Therefore, male is easy better to obtain the same woman if want to request a sex because that is changing to a lower energy barrier.  Therefore, she can bring their baby up safely.

 

This joy, it needs to think about sex of human being whom Buddha and Christ accuse.

 

A sexual desire already has since child. And they like an opposite sex among childhood friend vaguely. Even raw immature they act with the opposite sex in mind. Boys act tensely in front of girls. And advance from the first love to marriage or the cohabitation. Of these, it is talked as an everlasting love story theme as first love at usual time.

 

  5.3.7 Energy consumption and population of each era

In the old days, infant mortality was high due to the low energy required for survival despite the high fertility rate. There was little energy to survive. Sexual desire was the majority of entertainment. Especially since the middle of the Edo period, the farmers' lives became difficult due to the increase in famine.

Fortunately, the children who survive and grow up fall in love from the play of men and women, get married and form a family. Those who inherit the family inherit the fields from their parents. Those who did not secure field were cultivating new land to raise their children. In that case, it seems that there will be some difficulties, but instinctively enjoy of raising children (working together while helping the child) and the pleasure of sexual desire, and heal the spiciness (do not feel the spiciness so much). A poor parent was sold the girl to a a large store for reducing feed (a sad lullaby indicates that).

 

 lust was the majority of entertainment. There is energy to survive. As a result, the population control of the born babies has been left to Darwin's natural selection, which states that strong individuals survived. In an era when energy for survival could only be obtained from self-sufficient farming and fishing villages, further population control would been tailored to everyone’s standard of living. killed of child and mizuko treatment were carried out, and the proper population was naturally maintained. It was done by grandmother. Others don't say anything about it. Because tomorrow is my own. It correlates with the population, and in the 8th century, Japan could only be about 4.5 to 6.5 million people. It is believed that the number of people exceeded 10 million after the 15th century.

Envelopment of fish preservation methods contributed to this. Science and technology advanced in the first half of the Edo period, and production methods such as fertilizer and rice cultivation were established, and from the 18th century to the 19th century, it stabilized at around 30 million people.

 

From the Meiji Restoration to the present, science and technology have developed rapidly, energy to support the population can be produced overseas, and the number of infants dying has decreased due to the development of medical care, and now 120 million people Is increasing. Especially between many men who finished military service after the war and women who had been waiting for it, their sexual desire was released and many children were born explosively. This distortion of the population casts a big shadow on the present age, such as job hunting and aging problems.

 

(Energy consumption doubled in the 10 years from 1953 to 1963, further tripled in the 10 years from 1963 to 1973, and 4.5 times in the 2000s. Energy consumption was in the Edo period. It is 10 times.)

 

From the Meiji Restoration to the present, science and technology have developed rapidly, energy to support the population can be produced overseas. And the number of infants dying has decreased due to the development of medical care, and now 120 million people Is increasing. Especially between many men who finished military service after the war and women who had been waiting for it, their sexual desire was released and many children were born explosively. This distortion of the population casts a big shadow on the present age, such as job hunting and aging problems.

 

After the war, with the development of science and technology, resource development progressed all over the world. And the economy developed rapidly. Energy production and economic development proceed synergistically. Money is a substitute for energy that brings together each component (oil, food, electricity, intellectual property, and so on). The value of the material etc. depends on the rate at that time.

 

Money is a function  representation of the value of each energy in the form of money. If resources do not increase, printing money will only increase the price per piece, not rich. Being affluent can only be realized with the increase in energy resources.

 

In the 40's and 50's of the Showa eras, a mass consumption culture based on the commercial base of how to spend money was imported from the United States. And even ordinary people began to spend money to seek the opposite sex. Due to changes in the industrial structure and diversification of payment methods, many men work overtime to buy luxury cars that are originally difficult to obtain and invite women. Rich children always rely on their parents' money and spend it for women. I often saw a male student of a rich house stopping a luxury car at a college gate and inviting a female college student. Female college students were also devoted to searching for a potential partner who will generously treat them.

 

There are men who don't be loved from women.

It is presumed to be due to the frustration of might being rejected by the opposite sex if it does not look good. The small-minded person went to a pornographic movie theater and bought an admission ticket while paying attention to the surroundings. Because he feels embarrassment that perhaps be seen by someone he knew. At night, you can imagine the image of the photo screen or satisfy your sexual desire with a pornographic magazine you purchased.

 

    5.3.8 Personal flow of love

Abstract book by Stendhal

According to Stendhal, there are four types of romance: passionate romance, hobby romance, physical romance, and vain romance.

 

The procedure of personal love is written easily in the abstract book by Stendhal.

1. There is a shock. "Excellent person  "my fairy." to be praise; (opportunity of the love)

2. I want to live with you.  How happy I would be if I was kissed. (Approaching).

3. Feelings are strong and become intense. No matter how much you try to hide, the movements that cannot be hidden appear in your attitude, and the more you betray the secret of your heart, the stronger and more intense your emotions become.

4. I am close to a beloved person, I have pleasure achieving purpose having all sense, and feeling it. At this stage, there is what is bound together by love.

 

 At this stage, a love is grown. The marriage to satisfy sexual desire needs this process.

 

 There are many single people because energy disperses in various things and cannot cross over the wall of barrier. Anyway, as for it, the intense love that they made up for really cools down unless they strongly stimulate it each other. His greed and the different greed of the partner against each will fight, and it advance to marriage or part from each. It is depend on each amount stress.

 

  However when energy of life is diminish it may be soon cool down the fierce waves that reached the highest. There are many single people who cannot overcome this barrier because the energy is dispersed in various things.

 

5.3.9 My first love

I feel a chill wind flowing from a window. 能子,Where do you live in  now? Her feature, her immage, and so on is recalled. Female = Yoshiko only ... I keep secret by myself that I loved her. It is platonic love for her and me.

Before first love. 

 

May 1

Oh! A cluster amaryllis! It is bloomed in graveyards and ridge of rice fields. You are called a poisonous flower, and nobody get closer to you.

But you have been attracting me and make me go to the graveyard. I felt pitied to you, and I have become a captive gradually.  Let me hug embrace you having a hot emotion with the bright red petal.

Oh!  My beautiful cluster amaryllis.

 

A pretty girl who I wrote! The child looked like the younger sister. I ride with her on the same train every day. I want to let her grow up to a gentle child and I want to go near her in various ways.

 

My younger sister! A younger sister is walking with me. I talk with the weak voice like the flow of the brook. Hair rustling in wind flows as a spider line weakly thin. She pleases me, but you are still a child.

 

July 25

My younger sister! Though I thought that she would go away from me soon, I have felt like a lover. Is this love?

My younger sister.

It is a slightly impertinent younger sister with the discretion slightly.

She exaggerated matured chest.

And she walks in front of me proudly, the satisfactory soul is getting my love.  Her movements figure my heart out. But the younger sister knows nothing.

 

December 16

I haven't met you recently. A still small younger sister is.  I want to let her to be an obedient woman if you wish. However, I haven't met her recently.

 Did you move to anywhere? Gas suicide in housing complex was reported in news. At that time, I welled up the doubt in my mind instantly that mother and 15-year-old girl might be same.

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Many people have to discuss whether studying for oneself torments the people so much. I know her having a slightly gloomy shadow. I know her worrying of a silly examination and the boring life evaluation. What do you select her education or economic distress if 15-year-old girl was the person in news?

 

April 16

I exchanged a voice for the first time yesterday. I haven't remembered what she said or what I said.  It hasn't been sure, but the pass holder which she held out surely was written "Yoshiko Koizumi". I muttered in my mouth. I only repeated it over and over again not to forget it. I haven’t forgotten it.

My Fairy!

 

    November 5

 It was Yoshiko on the way to house that I saw her at 9:00 pm at Nagoya station. I already knew that she was coming near before to see me.

It is called a feeling of 6th strangely inspiration.

 

Sex hormones do not have an odor, but the opposite sex can feel each other.

 

  After we got on train we just have kept standing each on the train without talking though I imaged the timing to talk the themes of love to her. I was embarrassed with choking atmosphere. It flowed continued silence time although I had decided that I would say if I talk her next time as a result. We just hoped to arrive at the station early for escape from tense atmosphere after all.

 

February 2

I hadn't met her for a while.  And one month passed. In fact, she moved to Osaka after that she left the word "I found a job" on January 10 of this year.

 

Oh my first love! 能子 gave memory  loving for me. Thank you.

 

When I was enrolling in the master's program, I wrote this homepage and distributed it to young students of bachelor. At that time, One student said. "kumako-chan, she had gotten a job at Kyoto resin company". She was same class at high school with her. Also she lives still in 箕面 city

 

When I went to JTCCM to take a fire resistance certification test for an exterior material made from cement that I invented, I saw a similar girl at a coffee shop. there is close at 箕面 city. I didn't ask her though I thought her daughter.

 

5.3.10 Encounter of man and woman around 1970

 A woman is pretty, beautiful, and wonderful for men. A concept in the human has not changed it by the sexes that the organ of vision developed. I am a man. So, I prefer a pretty woman when I compare a ugly woman with a pretty woman. I like you having vital energy. In addition, I'm charmed by a female of the marriageable age. It is clear by the sex pheromone of female, but sex pheromone doesn't have both the smell and the color. It is the skill that the instinct can make. All men love a beautiful woman. Female has brightness, gentleness, intelligence and other attractive character compactly. The woman knows it whether these are hidden in makeup. She uses the money for it generously and desperately. It attracts the eyes of the man and she can make love with a man.

 

   Then what should a poor and ugly women do?

 

It showed a hint in the opening sentence. As for the woman of the mating season, a female scatters an attracting pheromone to attract males.  It is when a man is worried such time that the female pheromone of perception is sniffed. The desire of cerebrum can't stop sex because he already began to love you by your sex pheromone.

 

More specifically, if you work hard in a circle group or at work, your actions will appeal to the five senses of a man and be memorized, far exceeding your vision and becoming fascinating. Isn't it okay if you act your effort for a few months in front of the man you love for? it is very likely that he will choose the nearest girl due to the physiological process, I'll mention later, man's instinct allows this. That is because it is correct in the light of the evolution of life. In other words, stick to your loving man. Makeup is, after all, just a role to attract a man who meets for the first time.

 

Marriage of man and woman is a process of discussing and budding the problems necessary to live while tackling common problems in the workplace and circles. You must also respect each other's work, deepen the joy of living by helping each other, and connect with each other. Then you can marry a man loving.

 

The company I worked for employs young researchers from all over the country. So, there is a tendency to hire well-identified female university students as part of their welfare program. Therefore, there are many in-house marriages through circles.

 

  You can acquire him if you spend several months with loving man. The man originally has trouble to narrow down to one of ladies. He is more likely to choose you because he wants hug by the physiological course. According to a combination of DNA, this action permits without reason of instinct. This is because that increase combination of the descendant succession for evolution of the life. If a child is born, they become pretty, and marriage life continues.

  

 5.3.11 The psychology of housewife living in a housing complex in the 1980s.

 How is housewife thinking their house style?

What are housewives thinking their house style? There is questionnaire of a housewife living in the detached housing of the local newspaper.

 

 A. It is the best happiness for me to make the warm family watching the growth of my child with a husband.

 

B. I love husbands and children. I want to let growing them up by myself magnificently. Also, I want to value me myself. I cannot build the excellent family unless I study. If I couldn't do it, am I boring women for him?

 

C. I think it is a very important theme how to keep my time. When my husband has a varying experience by working hard at work, I must study as a housewife. I think the marriage is a new departure to keep own. It is not the graveyard of the life..

 

D. Lately I think my life whether this was all good utterly. As for the husband, he is good husband. All the children grew big. Marriage is so ordinary extremely boring. I'm already grandmother. Was this all right for my life utterly so far?

 

E. Men are a selfish thing after all and he said it is a work or it is an acquaintance of society. Even if I work hard at housework, and I am pressed by childcare and I want him to do it, but he doesn't do. I am already grandmother when I'm emancipated from a child. I feel that marriage is good for the circumstances of the men.

 

 When I consider the psychology of these housewives, I think as follows. It seems that the feelings toward the husband and the satisfaction of the ego change as the marriage period becomes longer.

 

Mrs. A is boiling the housewife that the world is for couple. Her frustration that she has not known the joy is disappeared at that of the her married. Also she feels that her life is increasing the pleasure by the child care. The mental state that she is satisfied with of the mind is indicated instinctive action.

 

 Mrs. B is similar too. I feel joy as the wife for husband, and mother for children. Also, it is seen that she has an aggressive feeling to watch society for a child, Mrs. C has a feeling independent as a wife. I am aware that it is equal with a husband.

 

Mrs. D thinks that are the longtime full-time homemaker she works housekeeping.

 

Also Mrs. E suggested non-rationality of the marriage as a woman. The society may vary from monogamy to matriarchal society if the woman has vital energy. Humans are animals that control their minds with emotions. Emotions are created by various chemical compound and quantity of brain secretions.

Since brain secretions change with age, women's emotions also change with age.

 

  5.3.12 around 2000s (Development of an external environment where sexual desire is satisfied alone)

In modern times, a large amount of energy is flowing in from overseas. As a result, each person has become accustomed to a rich living space that consumes more energy, and the per capita rate is much higher than before the war.

 

Therefore, we began to spend more time on education in search of high income, and both men and women were late in employment. A company with growth potential hire women who are commensurate with the welfare employment of men in the career class. However, even highly educated women are getting more and more late in their marriages because they are busy trying to utilize their abilities in their work, seeking motivation for their work, and seeking higher status. Even in the general public male become civil servants or full-time employees with stable income, the form of marriage is difficult because women demand abundant living power. As a result, many people spend their time on games on the Internet through their smartphones, or on lines mail that are content with short, emotional writing, without using the brain. This is because you don't feel the need to use your head to work on logical long sentences and literary expressions that use a lot of energy.

 

The terms "herbivorous boys" and "carnivorous girls" are becoming established. Many herbivorous boys accept passively. The opposite is true for carnivorous girls. It is presumed that there are two reasons for this. For one thing, he understand his future poor position and he doesn't have the courage to apply for a dating because of his anxiety. The other case is when the child was raised in a satisfying environment from an early age.  He doesn't get married even if he has a desire to get married because he doesn't uses his energy to make an effort.

 

"In each case, there is a lack of positivity. In terms of thermodynamics, there is no exit even if there is a large fluctuation, and it is a state where he cannot act. Because he has little active experience, so it is far from progressing love to marriage. As a result, he has acquired waits for actions from women for the energy-saving easy means way.

 

In the case of herbivorous boys in a favorable environment, it is easy for women with a strong tendency to ascend to approach. So, it is easy to be tied. But for herbivorous boys who do not fall under this category, it is easy to be left behind

 

What if you look at it from the outlet of the youth's lust? Men and women in the old days had enough space, so they satisfied their sexual desire with a "romance game, etc." In addition, there are many advantages to helping each other, and the young people got married. In the 40's and 50's of the Showa era, adult-related media developed, and it became possible to provide products related to sexual processing at low cost through movies, videos, photographs, toy( sex dolls) etc. to those who could not meet the opposite sex. Such an act is less energy than it is to get along with someone of the opposite sex. It is less than using energy as the barriers energy of needing touched opposite sex. The number of singles increased little by little because the weak are not troubled the sex.

 

Nowadays, with the spread of the Internet, not only genitals can be seen, but also the act of sexual intercourse itself is transmitted all over the world, and it is in an environment where it can be easily seen. In other words, the sexual desire of men became visually satisfying. However, the desire to touch the opposite sex is not satisfied. The crime of molesting will continue forever in the future. However, apart from that, with the improvement and development of silicon resin materials, it has become possible to obtain fake products that are elastic enough to make a woman feel. Therefore, it seems that the satisfaction of male sexual processing stimuli is being resolved with the development of the diversified sex industry. For example, sex dolls are called "love dolls" as of 2010, and those that are close to real women are offered for less than 100,000 yen. Unlike before, sexual processing is tailored to your financial strength. Similarly, homosexuality is being legalized for women, and LGBIT sexual minorities are being tolerated, and it seems that lesbians and others are using toy like man's penis to handle their desires.

 

Social advancement that makes the best use of women's careers has progressed and living alone has increased too. Convenience stores and supermarkets gather at the nearest station when you return home, and many retort pouch foods, delicatessen items, and lunch boxes are lined up to meet the diversification of lifestyles, making it easy to purchase daily necessities. In addition, people have come to coexist with pets such as dogs and cats in search of healing. And pets skillful waiting for their return stimulates their child-rearing instincts, making it possible for both men and women to easily satisfy their child-rearing desires now. I see many people complaining about their dissatisfaction, staring at the eyes of their pets who are enthusiastic about their complexion. Even if I live alone, my eating habits are no longer hindered. In other words, as a result, we have become a society where desires can be fully satisfied with a complementary system, and there is no need to get married.

In the olden days, "widow who don't marriage, the elderly Chonggar", which was said to be despised, was commonplace, and it didn't have to worry anymore.

 

According to the 2010 National Institute of Population and Social Security Research's "Sexual Experience of Unmarried People," the sexual experience rate for men aged 18 to 34 is over 1987. The sexual experience rate for women aged 18-34 has increased significantly over the last 25 years. It is reported that more than 50% of people who have sex were "20 years old for men and 19 years old for women". This result suggests that the Law of the Jungle has become more prominent than before. Herbivorous boys will lead a strict and cruel life due to Darwin's natural selection.

 

According to scientifically explained literature, there are 10 examples of measuring hormone levels in 21 men with an average age of 30.9 years and showing below the free testosterone threshold of the diagnostic criteria for age-related male hypogonadism (LOH) syndrome. It was found in the name (47.6%), and it was reported that hormones such as DHEA-s and IGF-1, which decrease with age, were also within the normal range, but tended to be low in secretion.

 

Recently, the number of women who are busy with work and are seeking men in the following ways is increasing.

 

We women instinctively sniff out the HLA of men who are the key to choosing a partner. That is "smell". When I was adolescent, my father's odor became harsh, and I remember hating my dad, saying, "Dad, it smells!" This may also be programmed to avoid mating between similar DNAs. Some combinations of HLA genes are useful in elucidating the origin of human populations, and by pursuing some characteristic combinations found in Japanese, Japanese strains can be found in both Northeast Asia and Southeast Asia.

 

5.3.13 Libido (sexual minority) that been coming out

the mechanism of the sensory information system is unlike the desires of the genetic information system. It is depending on the learning method as shown in the chapter on qualia. It go in any direction (Dawkins's selfish gene). That is incorporated into the brain-concentrated nervous system and communicates by the senses of feeling. At that time, an individual with an incomplete combination of genetic information appeared, and the desires emanating from it caused problems.

 

This is because the environment of synchronization and resonance of the constantly vibrating cerebral random pulses does not stand on the logical combination. Now that peace continues, sexual desire becomes apparent, and various combinations created from that cerebrum place are talked about without shame.

 

Now that sexual expression has been released, men can seek out outlets for their pent-up sexual desires on internet sites that are flooded with information. However, apart from such usage, it is also a place where anyone can have a serious discussion about sex. And the coming-out of those who want various forms of marriage has begun.

 

Sexual desire is not something that can be talked about only visually like birds. There is heterosexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality, asexuality, non sexuality, polysexuality (English version), object sexuality, object sexuality, etc. The more it is done, the more diverse the demands are formed. A synaptic neuron circuit is formed accordingly. Among them, the structure of the brain of gay men is different from that of ordinary men, and it has a shape like that of women. Similarly, the structure of the lesbian female brain is said to be like that of the male brain. It is unlike ordinary females. Modern pseudo toys like fake penis are also used for their sexual toy for them.

 

And they will be closer to each other visually, but after that they will get along with each other in the form of compatibility. In any case, it is impossible to leave offspring. However, it is constantly occurring with a small probability. They are the people who live as a minority group statistically. Of course, they also have the right to satisfy their desires, so they have recently gained social citizenship.

 

Therefore, when I think about marriage again, it is a joint child-rearing that starts when a woman becomes pregnant. Currently, the ritual of marriage is held when two people swear to have children. But if we define that it will be married when couple have started life with their children, as a result, the problem of minority will disappear. It is true that the two people fall in love with each other due to the effect of brain endocrine secretions and oxytocin. Their pair have the same psychology as minority people. As a result the two can run their own households independently.

 Double Income No Kid pattern is not a married couple.

 

5.3.14 The fear of libido that sacrifices life

Celebrities, such as Midori Satsuki in the olden days, and some people like Tsunehiko Watasezu and Reiko Ohara who repeatedly divorced and remarried and maintained their popularity. Entertainment news also flow us that actors and actresses are already having sexual intercourse without marriage. Many people are satisfied with their pride of having the depth of knowledge of information by being whispered in the streets. Entertainment media will also dare to take it up with production to make money. For entertainers, divorce and remarriage is like a job. In the case of Chiyoko Shimakura, She continued to live a life that devoted to a man's debt repayment she fell in love with even though she was deceived. And entertainment production made it a product.  Her talented also used it in her songs as her profound life experience.

 In the world of professional baseball, there are many player who are active without worrying even if they are openly whispered as Tokyo wife, Osaka wife. Those who satisfy their sexual desires in that way aim for a higher level work while satisfying sexual desire.  It's not a crime. When the other party will file a proceeding, they will settle with money.

 

Speaking of crimes for seeking a stronger stimulus of sexual desire, there are many celebrity drug crimes. When I search it on internet, it comes out so much that it rots. Saya Takagi, Noriko Sakai, and others, who were sold as pure-hearted actresses, sought drugs for deeper sexual pleasure. The number of male entertainers is ten times that.

 

Women's underwear thieves and molesters are subject to punishment such as theft and forced obscenity if they are sued by the victim. However, propensity of some men makes it so. School teachers can easily commit sexual crimes because they can create a space with their alone student. Up to high school level, disciplinary action will be issued and it will end.

 

However, for those who are called intellectuals, when they spend with women, it develops into a big problem because of their high pride and authority. Some people commit suicide just because they are attracted by charm of a young woman and are suspicious of their physical relationship. Yoshiki Sasai, who was the deputy director of RIKEN, Kyoto University School of Medicine, passed away, which is new to my memory. He, who the leader of researcher in the paper was committed suicide in the STAP cell turmoil of Haruko Obokata. In her dissertation, frauds such as "misuse of photographs" and "copying" were discovered one after another. In the position of helping her as her boss, he has lost his place in this society. It's a shame because he was a precious person for Japan.

 

The same is true for Koichi Aoyagi. In September 2015, he was take part in the bar exam question making. And he is leaking the bar exam questions to his student in her twenties during dating, losing all his status and honor. In addition, Kazuhide Uekusa, a famous commentator, was arrested for looked inside the skirt of a high school girl with a hand mirror, even though he was from the University of Tokyo. NHK announcer Takeshige Morimoto was arrested on suspicion of obscenity. Many people ended their life from the desire to touch women and see women, such as putting their hands in their underwear and touching them. The lust is such a big desire for a man.

 

In the case of the Nishiyama incident is the example that despised women. He publicize uncovering the secret agreement related to the 1971 Okinawa Reversion Agreement and publicizing it to the public.

 As a result, government side immediately let to switch to a gender (affair) relationship through the media. "He had an affair with her civil servant and stole information." government changed the topic to the lust problem of men and women.  The general public is more interested in the topic of gender relations regarding lust than the significance of the matter. 

 

Many men do not understand the psychology of women. Human beings were creatures that visually attracted each other, developed love by touching them, and proliferated. That instinct still remains on the male side. And since the act of touching a woman is not disliked by all women, many men feel free to hit their shoulders and try to touch it easily without being aware of the gender gap. Since it is an instinctive act, I do not recognize that it is an act of sexual harassment. Therefore, even if you touch your shoulder to encourage yourself, you may be sexually harassed. Speaking of sexual harassment, the case of Toyota North American car branch is too famous. It is said that the CEO committed sexual acts such as touching the body of a Japanese colleague in a hotel room or park on a business trip.  the woman got a huge settlement money as the result of proceeding to the judgment in the United States.

 

5.3.15 libido of the elderly people-  

Now, next is about the lust of the elderly people.

 

Couple do child care by command code of the child care written in at DNA. " A child is the pledge of affection".  However, among the men and women who finished it, a common conversation disappears. In addition, as well as sex differences, a reason to share living by difference in character (difference in personality) disappears. Therefore, the independent life of each person is accepted if there is even vital energy each other.

 

 Is it serious life problem for aged couple without hug and sex?

. Lately it is remarkable individual differences as for good health of aged.

 

A human is the same as mammals too, and secretion of the sex hormone decreases when they will be aged, and individual difference comes out. Sex hormone decreases, and  some people is not felt the greed of sexual intercourse at all. Also, some person resists a touching from the opposite sex. They dislike a touching. However, it is serious to erase it because some of aged people are engraved sex feeling into the cerebrum that they developed. Also it secretes dopamine and brain internal secretion, opioid, and Also, it secretes dopamine and brain internal secretion, opioid, and our pleasant feeling demand the opposite sex. There are many people whom pleasant feeling memory remains at the old age even if the generative function is over. There is the person for the pleasant feeling until they die. So-called "until become the ash." In other words, in the case of a human, it remains in the cerebral memory as a pleasant feeling by a person. All of such people demand the opposite sex, they have to live while having mental conflict after all. It is felt them enduring sexual desire, and living. It is a real story. A postmenopausal woman even has pleased with a pleasant feeling of the contact of the erogenous zone. Therefore, it is serious life problem for aged couple and widow without hug because lately it is remarkable individual differences as for good health of aged.

 

 There are many stories of divorce in old age. At NHK and others media advertise compliments of monogamy to us in order to maintain the bond between married couples in old age. ” Elderly couple let try to find a common hobby for the future or talk about beautiful aim that will continue the marital relationship”.

 

However, it is not convincing because some people have been endured their unsatisfied desire. Some people have a strong desire to maintain their physical relationship.

 

How do you treat your sexual desire in old age?

 

In men, prostatic fluid and testicular secretions accumulate and it released even in the elderly. At that time, I feel it like semen come out. The pleasure of the lower abdomen is the similar as when ejaculating. The secretions do not go out of body because there is no semen. Now, when I feel the urge of sexual desire, I do masturbation. The testicles do not shrink like they did when they were young.

 

I know a woman who had her ovaries and uterus removed and lost her libido shortly after the removal. The libido of a person who has had their ovaries and uterus removed appears to disappear rapidly due to a decrease in female hormones. However, there may be a desire to be kindly accepted by men? I don't know it.

 

In the widow's case, the image of her husband was remembered in the neural synaptic circuit of the cerebrum and was stable by stimulation from her husband. But after the stimulation was blocked, her cerebral circuit is constantly anxious from the gap between the stimuli that have been filled so far.

 

She continues to expect the stimulus from her spouse as a virtual image of the cerebrum even if the stimulus from her spouse disappears. And it will need to dilute over the years while remembering many times.  It takes 3-7 years to get rid of it because it's difficult to requires new energy and new cerebral synaptic circuit. It may be more than that. Therefore, it is a pain for the parties. The body tries to find a new spouse. The lustrous scent of the widow fascinates men. Therefore, they are suffering from that conflict carved into the cerebrum.

 

<< β-endorphin acts on opioid μ receptors and exerts a morphine-like action. It is produced by noxious stimuli such as stress and works for analgesia and sedation. The analgesic effect is said to be 6.5 times more effective than morphine . Dopamine in the dopamine nervous system (also known as the A10 nervous system) that projects β-endorphin from the ventral tegmental area of ​​the midbrain to the cerebral cortex by acting on the μ receptor in the ventral tegmental area of ​​the midbrain and suppressing GABA neurons. Promotes liberation and brings euphoria.

 

In other words, since individual differences occur in sex after older, there are some people who are living while having a contradiction in monogamy among married couples who have reached the middle age. It is pitiful for those with strong sexual desire to endure it and live. Some people wake up the pleasures they have forgotten are encountered to other people of the opposite sex from a slight trigger. .

People who have a comfortable life and want to seek a physical body even when they are old, regardless of their age, will participate in social dance , etc. It is seeking physical contact with the opposite sex.  And the lust is more and more strongly engraved in the cerebrum. People want to fall in love "until the ashes", but the quality is different.

 

Some of the widowed housewives, whose main earner was the head of the household, are naïve and do not know the horror of the social structure. Such people are so lonely that they join the religious world and social gatherings and distract her. Ballroom dancing is the same.

 

There are scammers in every gathering. They are good at ballroom dancing and although swindler pretends to be an intellectual man. So, she may actually be trapped in trap. Therefor, some people fall into hell because of the sensual joy of interacting with men who are familiar with the characteristics of women. Her pleasure secretes narcotics in the brain and is no longer in control and she lose everything.

 

However, it is not convincing because some people have to endure their desires. In general society, some people have a strong desire to maintain their physical relationships.

 

In ballroom dancing, except for Latin, you can't dance unless you are in close contact with the lower body of men and women.  After she makes a pair with a new acquaintance and, even if she doesn't feel like it at first, It is easy she will naturally become a male-female relationship if she dances for a week, a month, half a year. I'm sure it's correct. Therefore, I think it would be difficult for her to pair with each other in a clean relationship unless she is prepared to work on it.

 

The reverse is also true. Some single men want to interact with women, even if they spend all their fortune in search of their last desire after their short retirement. Those who are used to playing with money make young women wives. On the other hand, those who lack it, even a dull old woman like Chisako, will be struck by the fragility of her lust and male property will be rolled up. A man who has only sexual desire often sits at a woman's house, taking advantage of the weakness of a lonely old woman of a similar layer. There may be male violence, but elder woman having loneliness and sensual joy are endured.

 

Therefore, the desire of sexual desire can be distressing for both men and women, even in old age, as long as there is that desire.

 

Here is the title of the weekly Asahi article "Masturbation of the Elderly". The results of a survey conducted by the Japan Family Planning Association with GEX on the actual conditions of sexual behavior such as the number and time of Japanese sex and the feeling of climax were reported to men and women aged 20 to 69 years. It seems that 45% of men in their 60s and 13.8% of women answered "yes" in a month. In addition, people who have a lot of sexual life and have many memories of pleasure tend to seek their comfort even as they get older. Therefore, it may be necessary for elderly homes to prepare sex toys to distract their desires as future sexual measures. However, some people die of cerebral hemorrhage or myocardial infarction during sexual intercourse or masturbation.

 

Although men here, older women also have sexual desire.

Especially in the case of dementia, if you are a young male employee, you can show or play with your pubic area.

Men and women of all ages should not lose their sexual desire just because they are old.

 

5.3.16 The preservation of the near future

How will there be the near future? Let me show you 中尾ハジメ (朝日 journal 1970) comment.

Originally the figure of the human relations of sex is made somewhere. It is not a romantic lover, also it is not couple who was at the time of a promise in the future. In other word, the first time to experience of sexual desire is hard to admit as a system of the official recognition. It is not the couple of the official recognition.

The name called impure opposite sex association, or the lover is proper if I apply it forcibly. The words to be misleading must give back "the sex" to a person talking it. It will be young man and woman who are undemonstrative forever. The name is called dirty as an illicit sexual relationship. The words must give back "the sex" to a person talking it. It is not young man and woman who tried to avoid sex forever. If they keep themselves away the coitus until wedding ceremony, it would be only starved for mere sexual intercourse or be only afraid of it.

(I remember first part of story of the woman’s lifetime that there is not any experience of the author Maupassant.)

We have begun to defeat at the system which is going to isolate a person.

The man and woman connected by the sexual intercourse should have been a thing of the properties to share novel human relations. We should notice between relations of couple to share a theme from the beginning because we do not easily return to the hypocritical human relations of adult. It is necessary for a group to insist on freedom of the nature openly, and to recommend itself for to be created. The freedom of the sex is not given from an adult or from anywhere either. Man and woman of puberty or the youth must acquire it by their hands.

 

  5.3.17 The prediction of the far-off future

How will we predict the far-off future of our species?

A monogamy system is forced by a law in the present age. However, the current custom would be ruined if time passes, and a fertility technique progresses, the couple is performed among the member to share common society participation and work.

  The sexual intercourse is handled among the resembling member of personality. Many men love many women, and many women love many men. Will there be such a wonderful thing? The groper and immorality becomes the dead language. It is immorality to put it the other way around of the frustration of the people who it receives natural suppression and cannot insist on it. The immorality is a morality that is made to keep the desire for exclusive possession of the man of having power. Much energy is pushed up the high life level of the common female, and the sex is liberated from the woman. It has a decision right on the woman side to have a child. A group marriage system is seen in pygmy chimpanzee. A group marriage system holds good because there is the person expecting sexual desire with unspecified number of the general public. The proverb "there is a female behind a crime"  that becomes the dead language. Surely a group marriage system suitable for a human being is completed and will bring a rapid social organization change. The labor pains of the pregnant woman disappear. Furthermore, remodeling of DNA of humankind do to change to new subspecies at all if It change by the evolution of life. However, the pleasure genetic information of the sexual desire will be incorporated as codes of the living eternally.

 

 

5.3.9 Some senior have sexual greed.

    Sexual desire of the aged

Young couples bring up a child through hardships after getting married in the ancient times. They are second son and daughter, so they have to survive it while cutting the newly-developing farmland. And they is succeeded to there as the hometown of the child. But they have to obey a love of partner and the child care instinct because, in that case, life is severe.

A male secreting male hormone (Testosterone) looks for a female secreting female hormone (estrogen). And two people who had encountered secrete oxytocin by an order of the self-organization of DNA of each person and feel a sense of unity, and also  begin to demand pleasure each by secretion of dopamine and opioid of the drug in the brain more. When a child is born soon, as for the young couple, child care instinct is shown and they do self-sacrifice and do child care. Because it is fun even if they have a hard time, the instinct is mysterious.

By the way, it was the sexual desire of the aged I'm talking this time. NHK broadcast holding the bond of matrimony of the aged.

 ”Let's look for your hobby each together"

The media pays compliments to us and is going to arrange. It is unbearable story for some of aged.

The sexual desire to make the descendant is written on the cord of DNA.  And it is very strong greed because secreting sex hormone in form of the self-organization. It is accompanied with feeling made by a hippocampus and an amygdala. Also it is called an old brain as Reptiles brain.

Animals with instinct incorporate in a gene. Therefore, if a mating season passed their greed is disappeared immediately.  Furthermore, it is clear from that sexual greed is disappeared if someone castrates a dog and a cat.

A human is the same too, and secretion of the sex hormone decreases when they will be aged, and individual difference comes out. Sex hormone decreases, and the greed of sexual intercourse is not felt at all. Also some person resists a touching from the opposite sex. They dislike a touching. However, it is serious to erase it because some of aged people are engraved sex feeling into the cerebrum that they developed. Also it secretes dopamine and brain internal secretion, opioid, and a pleasant feeling demand the opposite sex. There are many people whom pleasant feeling memory remains in the old age even if the generative function is over. There is the person for the pleasant feeling until they die. So-called follow; "until become the ash." In other words, in the case of a human, it remains in the cerebral memory as a pleasant feeling by a person. All of such people demand the opposite sex, they have to live while having mental conflict after all. It feels sorry for enduring sexual desire, and living. It is a real story. A postmenopausal woman even has pleased with a pleasant feeling of the contact of the erogenous zone. Therefore, it is serious life problem for aged couple, widower and widow without hug, and sex. Lately it is remarkable individual differences as for good health of aged.

In other words, couple do child care by command code of the child care written in at DNA. " A child is the pledge of affection".  However, among the men and women who finished it, a common conversation disappears. In addition, as well as sex differences, a reason to share living by difference in character (difference in personality) disappears. Therefore, the independent life of each person is accepted if there is even vital energy each other.

 

恋のenergy

As for the male and the female, they are influenced to each  male or female hormone and are going to leave a descendant. Therefore, man and woman is an animal loving each through sex hormone. It is the same even if we have reached to aged. And estrogen (female sex hormone) is made from testosterone (male sex hormone).

In other words, a long time ago, , and some  individual was not able to change to female because external environment was severe. It is that result that became the male because external environment was severe. He copulated with a woman and left another DNA while doing meiosis . Therefore many of combination of DNA arrangement were made. A few individuals should be able to survive in the severe external environment from an individual of much DNA.

Furthermore, oxytocin is secreted and begins to feel a sense of unity when the sex crosses, and couple relations are deepened. And then they work for the child, they cultivate the newly-developing farm without feeling of hardships for child.

If I give a specific example in celebrities it is 高村光太郎 and 智恵子 . I think the poem as "智恵子抄”, and statue in 十和田湖 as '乙女像”.

 It couldn't make if they don't have deep love. The instinct is mysterious. The parent only thinks a child to be pretty even if feel the self-sacrifice. They feel it happy. Is it the effect that the secretion of oxytocin to act? As for the love is the same. We can use much energy which I cannot understand by love and then we can utilize and work actively. Love does not let you feel fatigue.

 

 

Discussion

Scientific explanation to occur in the cerebrum

 

    Become a widow and worry (cerebral virtual image)

I ask a question to the women.

As for two friends, they are in their late 50s now. Both of husbands died of cerebral hemorrhage or died by lung cancer. It was the husband in the 60s.  As a result you suffer from disease mentally whether everybody thinks that what happens to oneself if you become a widow, and can you live each life after that?

 

A question of Ms.能子 is hard for the person concerned.

 The image of the husband is memorized as a neuronal synapse circuit in the cerebrum space. After that his stimulation coming with a counterpart has disappeared. Eventually a cerebral waiting stimulation from him hasn't come and it is in unstable like empty hole. It continues to wait the stimulation from him as cerebral virtual image even if the synapse circuit loses the stimulation from him.

And it is disappeared while diluting. But it needs the long the times to disappear the circuits of cerebral neuronal synapse. Therefore It is hard to endure for her

 

Role of oxytocin for a close bond for couple

My lifework makes a handbill of "let's believe science" and will distribute it to everywhere throughout the life.

If a lady with the understanding about my action is only member, my fatigue isn't produced. And I can try it hard again. So she is feminine women when I look at the woman from such a situation even if she doesn't understand contents.  If I give a specific example in celebrities it is 高村光太郎 and 智恵子 . I think the poem as "智恵子抄”, and statue in 十和田湖 as '乙女像”.

 It couldn't make if they don't have deep love.  The instinct is mysterious.  The parent only thinks a child to be pretty even if feel the self-sacrifice. They feel it happy. Is it the effect that the oxytocin is secreting to make? As for the love is the same. We can use much energy which I cannot understand by love and then we can utilize and work actively. It does not let you feel fatigue.

 

  How feel impression of the partner's face at sex time?

 Female secretes much dopamine and drug opioid through the hippocampalis and striatum.

  Humankind is developing the optic neuron nerve especially. Therefore, the man stimulates female body while using every means to a woman. And he get pleasure at joy in the face which the woman is satisfied with.  Because stimulation according to demand of the instinct is transmitted through to whole body, female can enjoy the pleasant stimulation without watching male face. Let me explain a little scientifically. It is one of factors that a dopamine and the drug opioid in the brain are secreted.  Female secretes much dopamine and drug opioid through the hippocampalis and striatum. So females have a strong pleasant feeling (ecstasy). It is the reason that female joy is deeper overwhelmingly than male.

 

The person who does not have sex between old and middle age is double, and a person doing immorality is 3 times.

  The each times change.

  The morals of in Southeast Asia including Japan were tolerance about intercourse in the group society of the village unit common people culture since the Edo era. Especially the society was managed without being confused although the common people were tolerant about the sexual intercourse. In future the old men and old women that the child care finished will become an independent each because it cannot be possible making a child even if a old woman has sex with old man. But the social structure has begun to collapse.

 

  And now relations are beginning to start while having jealousy or fights to rivals. The old man having the strong gentle situation is liked by the opposite sex. The men having affinity will live with women in same house.

  I don't know what is good

 

  Everyone becomes old man or old woman. At that time, is the husband sees a wife as a woman, or the wife sees the husband as a man?

  This is difficult for real practice. We can't run with that sounding statement like doing a hobby each together. A sex is very strong greed because an order of DNA secretes sexual hormone in form of the self-organization as for the sexual desire of the bringing up descendant. It is clear by losing of totally sexual greed if it castrates a dog and a cat. Humankind is the same, too.

 

  But secretion of the sex hormone decreases when people is getting older, and individual difference comes out. Sex hormone decreases, and some people are not felt the desire at all. And some people hate the touching from the opposite sex. However, as for the other human sex memories are engraved strongly into the cerebrum, and it secretes dopamine. Therefore some people demand sexual intercourse for the pleasant feeling until people die. So-called; "become the ash" 

      

That is the skill that hippocampalis and amygdala nearly the old brain are making.  The hippocampalis make emotion.

 

 

  > I found an animation "a cat of the loyalty, the right to collective self-defense use" that just looked like it.

 

  It is televised every day. That is the skill that hippocampalis and amygdala nearly the old brain are making. It is a phenomenon that memory chiseled deeply in there.

 More action are depend on old brain. When the cerebrum has free time, it do only to perform check of those actions. The cerebral correspondence understands after around 0.2 seconds are delayed. There is an experiment of famous Benjamin Libet. When I have a stomach ache next day for the curry and rice which I ate yesterday, next day I become dislike an eel deeply I ate same day. The old brain memorizes a condition at that situation. Also it is call “episodic memory” Women will become a deep love when she feels in love with favorite men because she has wide hippocampalis. The hippocampalis make emotion.

 

The sexual selection differs from natural selection of Darwin slightly.

"A female inherits desirable hereditary information and the descendants like same form and essence as her.

 Therefore even if  an enemy is easy to find the male, he does efforts to be showy for the opposite sex,. A kind of animals has the tusk which went through upper jaw; and ... ... As a result, the kind that evolved sex selection outstandingly become extinct.

As for the natural selection of Darwin, various animals do not need evolution with a purpose as an individual, and natural environments decide each the place where each grows up without permission strictly and decide directionality of the evolution.

 

Is a racial viewpoint of the science chipped?

The animal except the humankind has a short life after the maturing function declined.  But reproduction is developed in short time, so there is enough time if they turn leaving a seed.

> Parent always copulates to make children. And single has to contribute to the environment if they cannot do it.

 

Most of animals are an egoist. The code written at DNA of all individual copulates for making child. A grandchild is pretty, but the old man and old woman does not think that the life does not bring up only their grandchild. They love a daughter than a grandchild.  Moreover, they oppose to a daughter for child care.  Therefore they participate in learning or new love because there is no time for child care.

 

Old men and women without embrace rather are suitable for the natural selection of Darwin? Some widow wants male because they are lonely. Sex differences became remarkable

There is a problem here. Animal performs a sexual intercourse in a part of near an old brain as instinct incorporated in a gene. Therefore it disappears when it is over. However, as for the humankind it is hard to erase it because a pleasant feeling is engraved into the cerebrum. And half of old people have pleasant feeling memory remains even if the sexual intercourse function were disappeared. So they have desire to want to hug each other. In other words, almost of people has a pleasant feeling in the cerebrum in the case of a human. Therefore, such people demand the opposite sex after all. It is a real story; some postmenopausal female gets a pleasant feeling of the stimulation from male. Therefore, it is a big problem in couple where they get old.

Some widow wants male because they are lonely. Sex differences became remarkable.

 

I do not think that I want to change the partner only for disagreement of sexual. I don't do a divorce although our sexual feeling became different?

 

The comment of Ms. 風子 is a model answer. But, does that mean that either endures it? I think that I cannot ignore the progress that becomes a mismatch for the nature happening with the aging. I think that aged have to live while they control impulse of the sexual desire that is one of the strong instincts.

  Rich group including the teacher keep a married until the last because having money actually. But some of them live with lover or other opposite, it is not publicized, but each may be enjoying it.

 

 

I want to do a hug even if it is for impotence, even a postmenopausal woman wants to do a hug.

Junichi Watanabe writes a bestseller novel. I do not know the reason it is sold more. But almost people don't know about the greed of sex of the aged regardless of man and woman.

It is impulsive really whether the greed of the aged remains young. I hear a parting shot "I do not want to see the face" at the time of the divorce. Individual difference is bigger, and disagreement of the nature of the old age becomes remarkable; and divorce ... ...

By the way, it is a question. Please tell me.

 

The animal is not conscious of the opposite sex after menopause.

Whether various person ... that it wants to be made person, where the almost of human is not interest in a hug at all. They behave like such situation.  If a difference of the greed was born in men and women, collapse of the monogamy is big theme if either thinks about patience.

 

The nature of the aged of the woman

Are Ms. さえこ and Ms. ゆきちゃんは in their 50s?

There are few ratios that a pleasant feeling of the reward system is carved with on the cerebrum virtual space when I only cross by an animal greed. Therefore, do you lose interest to a man when you decreased secretion of the sex hormone, the aged lady already finished extraction uterus operations?

How about opposite sex?

 

To ワヤ

I am in my 50s, but am not to have begun in now because it is the same feeling since I was young. It is ... ... (^_^;) which was over, huh It is my cause that I terribly sleepy after that especially night ^^; and (^_^;) There is the uterus, too

 

ワヤ

When I see the life of 瀬戸口 寂聴, she behaves a changed from a certain time. I do not understand the reason about the changing of her mind who becomes a priest. But may you lose women by a drop of the secretion of the female sex hormone because such person is seen near. If you take the uterus you will pass the menopause as neutral?

Does 瀬戸口 寂聴 have her uterus ?

 

To ワヤ

> Is it a story of individual differences?  Mr. ワヤ

 

Really has a cause not been analyzed yet? Is it difficult what the factor becomes?

Mr. 渡辺純一 has to disclose many data.

 

  The couple

It is ... with the couple

There is a relationship and gets married and man and woman shares a life

 I'm in trouble when asserted in this way. May there be various lives in the aged? You are in love because a humankind is an animal, and there is a child.  According to a cord of the self-organization of DNA a child leaves the nest. At that time, brain internal secretion combining a couple is oxytocin. When this is secreted, a couple feels a sense of unity and begins to do child care jointly. The child tickles the instinct of the parent by behaving like a baby because oneself lives and makes a parent come near.

The wife ties her husband during child care by letting he does sex so that a husband does not escape .

(Energy barrier falls down when she has relations to him once and he does not look for the other woman because he can cross with the woman anytime). It is hard to collect energy to look for other female.  

 (*^^*)     (*^^*)

Because individual difference comes out to secretion of the sex hormone as wrote about the aged, the problem that it is difficult comes out between couples. Because many women do not have ability for life, she can't leave from him even if a sense of the love disappears. They understand themselves and spend time with birds of a feather. If there is ability for life, it is better that you should make preparations for one's death freely.

 

Energy of the love

As for the animal with the sex, the female is influenced to a male hormone and male is influenced to female sex hormone and is going to make a descendant. Therefore, man and woman demand each other as an animal. As for the female sex hormone (estrogen), in the case of a man, testosterone is made by testosterone. In other words, it is the result that caused various combinations that external environment is severe a long time ago. We copulate and do meiosis of DNA

But some of the individual was not able to feminize in the severe external environment.

Testosterone can't change to estrogen.  Therefore, it is a male.

 

There is the case of me.

When was young, I was possessed by the incantation which said that I was timid, also I believed that the man should see the trouble of the woman, and there was not such experience.

 Therefore I haven't had courage to love female.

 

  But I have loved a widow lately. . Vital energy was slightly better than past.  Vital energy was slightly better than past.  Also It is love that my wife agreed.

I may touch her by my hand or kissed cheeks even if I said love.

As a result of in love, I was able to translate my homepage in English for a half year. I needed it at time, but have lost to do. But the active energy began to revive as a reason I loved her.

 

 And the energy of the love realized what I could pour energy which it was the same as child care.

It is unexpected.

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